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Bangla Sakhaoyat Tonoy
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To Forgive But Not Forget - Mufti Menk
Memaafkan Namun Tidak Melupakan - Mufti Menk
When we hold the grudge,
Saat kita menyimpan dendam,
wallahi, it pulls us down.
demi Allah, itu merendahkan kita.
It is a weight on our shoulders,
Dendam itu membebani kita,
it results in so much negativity,
menghasilkan begitu banyak hal negatif,
we have evil thoughts
kita diracuni oleh pikiran jahat
and it contaminates our entire system.
dan mencemari seluruh sistem kita.
Try your best to remove the grudge,
Cobalah sebisa mungkin menghapus dendam,
as hard as it is,
sekeras apapun itu,
as difficult as it is.
sesulit apapun itu.
People say forgive and forget.
Orang mengatakan maafkan dan lupakan.
I disagree with that,
Saya tidak setuju dengan itu,
because it's not really possible for a human being
karena tidak mungkin bagi manusia
to do the second part of it.
untuk bisa melupakan.
I can forgive you.
Saya bisa memaafkan Anda.
But if I forget,
Tapi jika saya lupa,
you might bite me from the same direction again.
Anda mungkin akan menggigit saya dari arah yang sama lagi.
And a Mu'min is not supposed to be bitten
Seorang mukmin seharusnya tidak digigit
from the same angle twice.
dari arah yang sama kedua kalinya.
That's a hadith,
Itu adalah hadis,
"(لا يُلدغ المؤمن مِن جُحر واحدٍ مرّتين)"
"(لا يُلدغ المؤمن مِن جُحر واحدٍ مرّتين)"
"A Mu'min is not supposed to be bitten
"Seorang mukmin tidak seharusnya digigit
from the same hole twice."
dari lubang yang sama dua kali."
So I will forgive you whole heartedly.
Jadi saya akan memaafkan Anda sepenuh hati.
But, I'm not going to forget it,
Tapi, saya tidak akan melupakannya,
because I don't want you to bite me again
karena saya tidak ingin Anda menggigit saya lagi
from the same angle.
dari arah yang sama.
Therefore, I may not embrace you
Oleh karena itu, saya mungkin tidak menerima Anda
after I've forgiven you.
setelah memaafkan Anda.
You know, a sign that you've forgiven someone
Tanda bahwa Anda telah memaafkan seseorang
is not that you embrace them in the way
bukan berarti Anda menerima mereka dengan cara
that you returned the relationship back
bahwa Anda kembali berinteraksi
to way it was.
seperti dulu lagi.
That is possible if both parties are genuine.
Hal itu mungkin jika kedua belah pihak ikhlas.
But if both parties are not genuine,
Tetapi jika kedua belah pihak tidak ikhlas,
you might say, "O Allah, I forgive this person
Anda mungkin berkata, "Ya Allah, saya maafkan orang ini
but I don't want to have anything much to do with them
tapi saya tidak ingin berhubungan lagi dengan mereka
from now on."
mulai dari sekarang."
Subhanallah,
Subhanallah,
you're not wrong.
Anda tidak salah.
Some people like I say are so toxic,
Beberapa orang, seperti yang saya katakan, sangat beracun,
you have to save yourself from such people
Anda harus menyelamatkan diri dari orang-orang seperti itu
because the minute you interact with them,
karena begitu Anda berinteraksi dengannya,
their habits, their character, their conduct,
kebiasaan, karakter, dan perilaku mereka,
their thinking, their speech,
pemikiran mereka, ucapan mereka,
everything is so negative
semuanya sangat negatif
that it has such a bad impact on you,
sehingga berdampak buruk pada Anda,
you come back from them depressed.
Anda tertekan setelah bertemu mereka.
You might want to stay away,
Anda mungkin perlu menjauh,
there's nothing wrong.
tidak ada salahnya.
If you have tried to change them
Jika Anda telah mencoba untuk mengubah mereka
and you did not succeed,
dan Anda tidak berhasil,
you stay away from them.
jauhilah mereka.
It's better for you.
Itu lebih baik bagi Anda.
They are known as toxic people.
Mereka dikenal sebagai orang-orang beracun.
So we're talking about saving ourselves.
Jadi kita membahas tentang menyelamatkan diri kita sendiri.
We have to save ourselves
Kita harus menyelamatkan diri kita
from two types of Shaitaans:
dari dua jenis setan:
One, is the devil Shaitaan, Iblees and his progeny.
Pertama, adalah setan Iblis, Iblis dan keturunannya.
And two is, Shaitaan from amongst mankind.
Kedua adalah, setan dari kalangan umat manusia.
There are devils, people whom unfortunately,
Ada setan, orang-orang yang sayangnya,
very unfortunately,
sayang sekali,
they don't want to mend their ways in habits.
mereka tidak ingin memperbaiki kebiasaan buruk mereka.
They steal, they pinch,
Mereka mencuri atau mencopet,
they do it once, twice and 10 times.
sekali, dua kali, atau 10 kali.
If you don't save yourself from such people,
Jika Anda tidak menyelamatkan diri dari orang-orang seperti itu,
you will regret.
Anda akan menyesal.
May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) protect us.
Semoga Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) melindungi kita.
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