SUBURBAN SWINGERS | Inside the swingers club | Sex, jealousy & relationships reinvented | 7 NewsYouTube↗  IA↗(long shot)
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let's go keys in a bowl and then everyone  just gets naked and just has sex so would you watch Lawrence have sex yeah i  have i mean last weekend i watched you have
sex so it's not straight into the orgies but  the audience do come along yeah yeah go just it's kind of like watching my porn to be  honest personally i've only seen maybe 20 to 25 couples 50 people wow I am speechless. My  name is Ciaran Lyons. My life is pretty normal but not everyone's life is like mine some are  rarely seen I'm about to go deep inside these hidden worlds to experience life done differently  i'm going to a swingers club for the very first
time and i'm a bit nervous am i just gonna see  like people having sex everywhere am i gonna just walk in and there's just naked people  all around me i don't know what to expect in a back street of a quiet leafy sydney suburb is a  three level swingers club called our secret spot it belongs to these two jess and lawrence  business partners life partners partner swappers
lawrence entered the swinging world in a  previous relationship he brought up his lifestyle with jess on their very first date  it was new to her but she was keen to try and just one year later they opened this swingers  club what what's this so this is the bar here this is where people come in yeah so this would be your  normal starting point so you've got your bar where
you drop off your alcohol you get greeted by one  of the staff members um and then essentially if you've not been here before one of them will step  from behind the bar and take you on a tour you've got one section down here you've got another  socialising area up here and are people allowed to have sex on these couches i mean we would  recommend against it because it is obviously
people come in at the beginning and that could  be quite confronting cameras are almost never allowed in here it's a new experience for all of  us and to be honest it wasn't what i was expecting i guess everyone's conception of a swingers  club as you walk in and it's straight in like you know straight into having sex straight  into lingerie but it sort of takes a bit of
warming up for it so it's not straight into the  orgies but the orgies do come along ah thought so that's more what i imagined a swingers club  was about the party kicks off in just a few hours for now i'm staying in my comfort zone a  saturday night playing pool is much more my speed what i say as an opener let's play a game of pool  pretty much pretty much this is exactly what you
would say if you know you were at a bar and you  saw a pool table and you were talking to a girl across and you were like hey how about we play  pool together okay i'm pretty good at pool as well the ground floor of the club feels  like a bar with an adult twist which before covert restrictions could  entertain as many as 400 people a night
it's a moving pole it is a movie it's  a proper um stripper pole just go oh very um entertaining yeah very entertaining would  that turn people on i mean yeah well it's actually quite fun i'm very dizzy like i feel a bit i  love this stuff looking at me but that's fine um come on take you downstairs to the junction  room up until i heard the words dungeon room
this swingers club look like your average bar  then again jess and lawrence appear like an average couple aside from the swinging one-third  of long-term couples in australia are open to swinging so maybe it's my preconceived notions  making me feel a bit awkward um so we've only just recently opened this space up with the help  of some of our bdsm and kink friends but i think
things are about to get a lot more awkward so what  do people sit on this or do they lie across it like that yeah okay and what then they get  whipped anything look there's a lot of things to do in that position right okay okay oh yeah  right okay anything can happen look i've never seen one of these before no but you seem quite  natural around so i'm assuming i put my hands yes
eating right to one jess and Lawrence recommend  all guests have a safe word particularly in the dungeon room a way of communicating stop in any  situation three syllables is best to prevent it being mixed up with other noises jess's safe word  is pineapple i don't have a safe word can you give me a suggestion for a safe word your favourite  three-syllable word you can take pineapple if
you want arsenal's my favourite soccer team  arsenal but that's probably not the best word um i mean maybe soccer ball three syllables  soccer ball this room is probably what most people imagine when they think about swingers  but it's only a small part of the story the average age of Aussies who  visit swingers clubs is between 30
and 45. new south wales is ringer central  with at least seven events held every weekend one are the biggest misconceptions about swinging  um i think the biggest one is that kind of old-fashioned you know keys in a bowl and then  everyone just gets naked and just has sex it's nothing like that jared and fiona are swingers  and regulars at the club they both say that the
lifestyle makes relationships better but i would  struggle seeing my partner with somebody else so you both have partners how do you guys deal  with jealousy in the relationship people like to think that being swingers or polyamorous that we  don't get jealous and that's not the case at all you know we do get jealous and it's about figuring  out why it is that you might be jealous and then
communicating that with your partner coming  to a resolution realizing that you are good enough or that you don't need to be insecure it's  usually what it comes down to most of the time is your jealousy is that you're you feel insecure  that somebody else is better if you want to put your relationship to the test and spend a night at  a swingers club it's going to cost you a hundred
and fifty dollars per couple and fifty dollars  for single ladies single men are allowed but they have to be vetted and cough up a hundred bucks  each okay so i'm 23 myself you know sitting in a swingers club would i pass that selection process  you seem like a pretty intelligent what's the what's the test so it's just a set of  questions yeah we just want to know that they
understand things about respect and consent and  we need them to obviously be you know thinking conscious people so and respectful as well yeah  respectful is the key is the number one goal a study out of the us found that two-thirds of the  time men in the relationship will suggest swinging but once they've done that the majority of women  were happy to participate the overwhelming reason
sexual variety and fantasy something that jess  caters to specifically so this one just here is our voya room so with this room it's a mirror  where you can see inside but the people inside having the sexual acts will not be able to see  out so why wouldn't they want to see out so some people like to put on a show but they don't  like the idea of having people staring at them
um so down here we've got multiple private rooms however if they do decide they want to be  exhibitionists but not have people enter they simply just cook the chain up essentially  what that means is they can view they can watch but they would have to ask permission to  enter in oh wow and there's the walls are
interconnecting yeah yeah so basically the walls  at the top don't actually join to the roof so you can hear all those noises throughout the club  and is that to enhance the experience so they can hear other sounds yeah so hearing noises generally  makes people get into that mood okay so i'm definitely getting the lay of the land but it's  the group room that's going to be the main stage
for tonight's big show there's two beds here then  there's one one big bed here sometimes you'll have couples who will be like five or six couples who  all want to play and having these beds kind of separates them a bit so what's the most amount  of people you've seen on this bed here i mean personally i've only seen maybe 20 to 25 couples  but not in this one bed but in this entire room i
mean the most we've seen is i've counted somewhere  in the vicinity of 50 people 50 people wow there is protection in every single room  it's recommended people use it but it's not compulsory jess says that nearly everyone in the  lifestyle gets tested regularly to try and prevent the spread of disease this bathroom here i mean  would you call this a bathroom there's no door
a grooved shell like an open wet space yes you got  the three shower heads and we also built in i call it a bench but it's also just a bench where you  can sit down essentially so people might be having showers here but at the same time there might be  people having sex right here sex or just sitting down and having that moment to relax because if  you view from here you can see that whole room
with 20 of australians looking for threesomes and  jess and laurence often looking for a little more than that maybe swinging is about stripping  away ego as well as clothes don't put too many expectations if you do decide to to visit a  club talk with your partner first make sure you know how each other feels make sure you know if  there are any boundaries what those boundaries
are and you know just be honest with each other  if you know if you're going you're nervous tell them that you're going in really nervous if you're  with you know there's another guy there's six guys in the bed do you feel self-conscious looking  at their body and going he's got a bigger penis than me is that a bit no i'm arrogant enough  to just be comfortable i think it's just being
confident in yourself though like i think that's  natural though like it's it's a natural thing to kind of judge yourself from somebody else but  like everyone has something special about them so i met Jess, Lawrence got the  rundown know what i'm in for i can't really delay this any longer i'd  love to just stand on the street and talk
about this all night but i am going to  check out my first ever swingers night yes oh yeah yeah it's hard like another four straight
let's go i am speechless when i first walked in it just  felt like a normal nightclub it was pretty chill people were just like chatting and playing  pool a lot of people were looking at me when i walked in um and i think that's mainly because  i was there by myself and then we went upstairs
and it was just like from one to 100 it was  just like we went from a nightclub almost like a secret door like this secret area  that i wasn't supposed to be part of i saw plenty of orgies i walked upstairs immediately  there was just like some girl giving up and like then i looked to the left and there was some  guy had his on this girl's like like on on the
seat right next to me and i hadn't even gotten  to the bedrooms yet um then we then we got into the bedrooms and there was like this couple like  was on top she was just like and he was then we walked away then we came back and then there's  a bloke with clothes behind the just with his like it was all happening i mean  then we went in the orgy room and
you think you can see sex and then you actually  are looking at sex live in action like i'm actually looking at the sex happening in front  of me and i'm fully clothed watching people it's a different experience i think everyone needs  to experience it once in a lifetime visiting a swingers club was never on my bucket list but  I'm glad I've experienced it after meeting jess
Lawrence and the others at the club i get why  they do it people have fantasies and we all don't want the same things life would be boring  if we did we can also learn a lot from swingers they are seriously good communicators and their  ability to deal with jealousy is almost superhuman you
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