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As-Salāmu ‘alaykum wa raḥmatu Llāhi wa barakātuh.
As-Salāmu ‘alaykum wa raḥmatu Llāhi wa barakātuh.
A‘ūdhu biLlāhi mina sh-shayṭāni r-rajīm. Bismi Llāhi r-Raḥmāni r-Raḥīm.
A‘ūdhu biLlāhi mina sh-shayṭāni r-rajīm. Bismi Llāhi r-Raḥmāni r-Raḥīm.
Aṣ-ṣalātu wa s-Salāmu ‘alá Rasūlinā Muḥammadin Sayyidi l-awwalīn
Aṣ-ṣalātu wa s-Salāmu ‘alá Rasūlinā Muḥammadin Sayyidi l-awwalīn
wa l-ākhirīn. Madad yā Rasūla Llāh, madad yā Sādāti Aṣḥābi Rasūli Llāh,
wa l-ākhirīn. Madad yā Rasūla Llāh, madad yā Sādāti Aṣḥābi Rasūli Llāh,
madad yā Mashāyikhinā, dastūr yā Shaykh ‘Abdu Llāh al-Fā’iz ad-Dāghistānī,
madad yā Mashāyikhinā, dastūr yā Shaykh ‘Abdu Llāh al-Fā’iz ad-Dāghistānī,
Shaykh Muḥammad Nāẓim al-Ḥaqqānī. Madad.
Shaykh Muḥammad Nāẓim al-Ḥaqqānī. Madad.
Ṭarīqatunā ṣ-ṣuḥbah wa l-khayru fi l-jam‘iyyah.
Ṭarīqatunā ṣ-ṣuḥbah wa l-khayru fi l-jam‘iyyah.
Our Holy Prophet ﷺ
İnsanlar
gives plenty of advice
iyi geçinsinler diye Peygamber Efendimiz ﷺ
for people to get along well.
çok tavsiyeler eder.
People tolerating
Birbirleriyle tahammül etmeleri
each other
insanların, onların
raises their station.
mertebelerini yükseltir.
Everybody makes mistakes and has faults.
Herkesin hatası oluyor, kusuru oluyor.
Everyone should
Herkes birbirini
tolerate each other.
çekmesi lazım.
We need to be forgiving of each other.
Müsamaha göstermek lazım.
And that of course is not an easy thing.
O da tabii kolay bir iş değildir.
It is tough
Zor iştir. Çünkü
because nobody is pleased.
kimse memnun olmaz. Ne yapsan
You cannot please anybody no matter what you do.
kimseyi memnun edemezsin.
Only Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla can please.
Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla ancak memnun eder.
It is said: "Lā yarḍá l-‘ibād illā Rabbi l-‘ibād."
"La yardal ibad illa Rabbal ibad" demişler.
It says only Allāh ﷻ can provide
Kulları ancak Allah ﷻ
contentment and please His ﷻ servants.
razı, memnun edebilir demişler.
As an example of the matter of tolerance,
Tahammül meselesinden şey,
Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām would not sit at
İbrahim ‘alayhi s-salām misafirsiz
the table without a guest. He loved guests very much.
oturmazdı yemeğe. Misafiri çok severdi.
One day, a Zoroastrian
Misafir bir gün bir
came as a guest.
mecusi gelmiş misafir olarak.
Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām welcomed him.
İbrahim ‘alayhi s-salām buyur etmiş kendisini.
They sat at the table. Just as they were about
Yemeğe oturmuşlar. Tam yemeğin üstüne demiş
to start he said, "Stop, just a minute.
dur bir dakika öyle olmaz. Sen
This is not possible. You can eat from these
Müslüman olursan bak bu ziyafetten,
delicious foods, from this feast, if you become Muslim."
bu güzel yemeklerden yiyebilirsin demiş kendisine.
The Zoroastrian refused leave his religion.
Mecusi de demiş yok dinimden dönmem ben.
In response, he told him he would not let him eat from
O da demiş o vakit sana yedirmem ben bunu.
the food. So he got up and left.
O çekip gitmiş oradan.
Immediately, Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla revealed
Hemen Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla o saatte vahyetmiş
to Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām,
İbrahim ‘alayhi s-salām'a.
He ﷻ said: "That man, that servant of Mine has not been worshipping Me ﷻ
Demiş bu herif, bu kulum 70 senedir
but worshipping the fire for seventy years.
Bana değil de ateşe tapıyor, mecusidir,
He is Zoroastrian. He is rebellious towards Me.
Bana isyan ediyor. Ben 70 sene
I tolerated him for seventy years, provided
buna tahammül ettim, rızkını verdim,
him with sustenance, and made him eat and drink
yedirdim içirdim. Bir şey sormadım.
without asking him anything in return. You did not let
Sen bir yemek için adamı
him eat one time but sent him off.
yedirmeden gönderdin.
How can you do that? Quick! Call him back."
Nasıl ettin bu işi, çabuk çağır.
So Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla is tolerant towards people,
Yani Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla'nin insanlara
because people are all the time in
tahammülünü, çünkü bütün vakit insanlar
rebellion, denial, unbelief, and all sorts of vileness
isyan, inkar, küfür,
against Allāh ﷻ. Allāh ﷻ is tolerant.
her türlü rezillik Allah'a ﷻ karşı yapıyorlar.
Allāh ﷻ is patient with them.
Allah ﷻ tahammül ediyor. Allah ﷻ bunlara
So it should be a lesson for us.
sabrediyor. Yani bize de ibret olması lazım.
Then Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām ran
Bu defa koşturmuş İbrahim ‘alayhi s-salām
after the Zoroastrian. He told him he
mecusinin peşinden. Demiş ki
was very welcome to come and eat, and to do as he liked.
buyur buyur sen gel yemek ye, istediğin gibi
He told him he would not interfere with his religion.
şey yap. Senin dinine karışmayacağım demiş.
The Zoroastrian was surprised:
Mecusi şaşırmış. E demiş sen az önce beni kovdun.
"Well, a little while ago you
Nasıl oluyor da böyle
told me to leave. How come you're
beni gene çağırıyorsun?
calling me back? What happened?"
Bu işin aslı nedir? Demiş
"Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla revealed to us
Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla bize vahyetti ki
that your situation was like this.
senin durumun böyle böyle, 70 senedir senin rızkını
He has been providing for you for seventy years even though
veriyor sen O'na tabi olmadığın halde.
you are not obeying Him ﷻ." The Zoroastrian was surprised:
Mecusi de şaşırdı. Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla bana bu kadar
"Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla respects me and He ﷻ did so much
hürmet etti, bu kadar şey yaptı diye senin dinini
for me. Teach me your religion." Then he became
öğret demiş. Hemen Müslüman olmuş ondan sonra.
Muslim immediately. So this is tolerance.
Yani bu tahammül, insanlar
People are hardly tolerating each other.
birbirlerine zor tahammül ediyor tabii.
Of course, people have plenty of faults.
Tabii insanların kusurları çok.
Another instance, this one
Bir hadisede, bu şeyin biraz
has an amusing side to it.
işin enteresan tarafı var.
Someone we know, a secondhand,
Bir tanıdık,
used car dealer – Let me say a word about
eski ikinci el araba tüccarı
secondhand car dealers here now.
burada da şimdi ikinci el araba tüccarlarına da
They are the world's, mā shā’a Llāh,
bir şey yapayım. Dünyanın mā shā’a Llāh en,
what can we say? May they
ne diyecek, affetsinler ama
forgive us, but that is how their work is.
onların işleri öyle icabı.
They are the world's biggest liars.
Dünyanın en yalancı adamlarıdır.
They sell you an old, the oldest car,
Külüstür, en külüstür arabayı sana
as a super car.
süper araba diye satarlar.
We were invited for dinner at someone's
O arkadaşla beraber bir
place with that friend. We were sitting
zatın yanında bizi davet etmişti. Orada oturuyoruz.
and chatting: "What do you do?"
Muhabbet oldu, ne iştigal edersiniz? İşte
"Well, I sell used cars and whatnot."
ikinci el araba satarım, ederim filan diye.
"I'm going to ask you something.
Dedi ya soracağım bir şey sana. Hiç
Are people ever happy with you?" "What?!"
insanlar memnun olur mu senden? Ne!
It is impossible even if it were a normal car.
Yani zaten normal araba olsa imkanı yok.
The cars the guy sells are the world's worst cars.
Adamın sattığı arabalar dünyanın en berbat arabası.
No way for him to please anybody.
İmkanı yok birisini memnun etmeye.
And he is saying without regret,
O pişkin pişkin ne mümkün efendim,
"Not possible sir. Nobody's happy. We do so much.
hiç biri memnun olamıyor diyor. O kadar şey yapıyoruz
Nobody but Allah ﷻ can make them happy.
Allah'tan ﷻ başkası memnun etmez bu insanları diyor.
We can never make people happy."
İnsanları hiç memnun edemiyoruz diyor.
This can also be found. People can blame
Yani bu da var böyle. İnsanlar
their own fault on others.
kendi kusurlarını, kabahatlerini
Therefore, we need to be tolerant of everybody.
başkalarına da şey yapabiliyor. Onun için herkes
Everybody needs to be tolerant.
tahammül etmek lazım. Tahammül etmesi lazım.
We will manage and get along.
Geçinip gideceğiz artık. Ne yapacaksın
What can we do?
dünya
The world is a place of trials.
imtihan yeridir. İmtihanla
In shā’a Llāh we will come through the test to the
in shā’a Llāh Allah ﷻ huzuruna
Presence of Allāh ﷻ, clean from the test, in shā’a Llāh. Today we speak about to be, can carry each other, to be happy with each other. Because
ak çıkarız in shā’a Llāh imtihanımızla.
Muslim they must be helpfull for each other and be, not be not carrying anything, any word, anything from other. We must be soft for each other.
This is to be happy. But people, nobody can make them happy with each other. Only Allāh ﷻ He can make people happy.
There is Arabic word: "Lā yarḍá l-‘ibād illā Rabbi l-‘ibād," meaning for human being, only Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla He ﷻ can make them accept
and to be happy, satisfied with what He ﷻ give. Other what you done, what you do every time nobody happy with what you are doing with them. Even
you maybe make with good intention, but other also not happy. Difficult but we must be try to be happy with each other
and appreciate what other doing. Not make all time to be not happy with others. Because Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla, His ﷻ attribute
to forgive and to make iḥsān. He ﷻ forgive and He ﷻ giving for people. Once Sayyidinā Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām –
he is from great Prophet – he was very generous and when he like when he eat, he like every time to have guest with him to eat. Sometimes going out in street to looking for
people bring them to eat together if he not coming guest. And once there was one majūsī, meaning fire worshipper – that time this his area it was like this people –
and he bring him and put very nice table food. And this man he want to eat. He said, Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām, "Wait. You are not Muslim. You cannot eat this until you become Muslim."
And this man he look, he said, "No I cannot change my religion for this." As Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām say, "Sorry I cannot give you food." And he send him away. And this
time Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla sending waḥy for Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām: "O Ibrāhīm what you done for this man? He is seventy years worshipping this fire not accepting Me ﷻ
and he doing everything wrong and I'm not looking for him. Seventy years I'm giving his provision, food, everything without asking about what he is doing.
And you are only for one meal you kick him out? Quickly go and bring him back. Give him this food." And Ibrāhīm ‘alayhi s-salām, he quickly he run after this man
and he said, "Come, come please come. Have your food." And man he was very astonishing. "What happen? What? Why you do this? First you kick me out and now you are send..."
He said, "My Lord Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla He ﷻ said for you, you are seventy year not obeying Him ﷻ, worshipping not good thing but He ﷻ is giving you provision,
giving you everything, not asking and for me, He ﷻ blame me because I'm, I didn't give you one meal. For this I'm bringing you back."
And he said, this man, he said, "Oh our Lord He ﷻ speak about me like this? Teach me quickly your religion." And he become Muslim.
How He ﷻ is, Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla, carrying all this world – they are not obeying, they are coming against Him ﷻ, doing everything against. They are swearing. They are
everything they can do against Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla He they are doing. But still He ﷻ is carrying this people and not saying anything.
This is must be for us also example and to try to do what we can do. But of course is not, not easy
to carry people. Only Awliyā’u Llāh they was carrying people, and Prophets. For other people – sometimes carry, sometimes not. And there was one story happpen with me. It was
little bit funny because once we went, we was with one man from our friends, he is secondhand car dealer. And here also we said for secondhand dealer –
Ḥajjī Osman he was saying every time – the most crook people. Sorry for our, there many brother also they doing from our second hand and once I do also two months.
That was really not for me at all. And he was sitting and at dinner this one man invite us to dinner, and he was speaking, chat together.
And this man he was... What he didn't know, other one he asking him – his name, his job, what you are doing. He said, "I'm secondhand car dealer."
And this was he was asking him one question, "Do you have any" – and this car dealer specially this one the was it was the worst in the world – cars he has
but he making something selling people. Of course it will not be happy with him. This man asking him, "And do you have anybody happy with your thing,
with you?" said this man. "Oh subḥāna Llāh how they are. It is impossible for, I cannot make them happy. Only Allāh ﷻ make them happy."
But he was, it's funny to ask this question for this man. And he was trying, saying as he is selling the best car and saying, "Nobody happy with me."
This people also everybody they have excuse for themself, even they have the worst thing but they have also excuse to for themself.
So we are no need to make excuse, only to be, try to be good with others, in shā’a Llāh. Wa min Allāhi t-tawfīq, al-Fātiḥah.
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