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(optimistična glazba)

- Okay, well, let's do this.

- Ok, pa, napravimo ovo.

- We met on December, 2017.

- Upoznali smo se u prosincu 2017.

Wait, no, on December 31st right?

Čekajte, ne, 31. prosinca, zar ne?

Right before new year's Eve.

Neposredno pred novogodišnju noć.

But we've been talking for a couple of months.

Ali razgovaramo već par mjeseci.

You messaged me on "Jack'd".

Poslali ste mi poruku na "Jack'd".

You lied about where you were,

Lagali ste gdje ste,

you spoofed your location

lažirali ste svoje mjesto

and then pretended like you were in New York,

i onda se pretvarali kao da ste u New Yorku,

even though you were still in Montreal, I think, or Toronto

iako ste još uvijek bili u Montrealu, Torontu

or something like that.

And then you were trying to sleep over at my place before,

A onda si i prije pokušavao prespavati kod mene,

even meeting me.

čak i sa mnom.

But then on December 31st,

Ali onda 31. prosinca,

when you were actually already in New York,

kad ste zapravo već bili u New Yorku, ponovno

you hit me up again.

ste me udarili.

And then I was like, okay, fine.

A onda sam bila kao, u redu, u redu.

You can come watch a movie with me and my roomie.

Možete doći pogledati film sa mnom i mojom sobicom.

And then we ended up going on like a proper date,

A onda smo na kraju prošli kao na pravom datumu,

and then you ended up being my first new year's kiss.

a ti si na kraju postao moj prvi novogodišnji poljubac.

- I was planning a trip to New York city for new year's Eve.

- Planirao sam putovanje u New York za novogodišnju noć.

I remember seeing you on an app.

Sjećam se da sam te vidio u aplikaciji.

I remember we exchange our "Line" contact and Instagram.

Sjećam se da smo razmijenili naš kontakt "Line" i Instagram.

And to be honest that evening, I spent maybe

I da budem iskren te večeri, proveo sam možda

a couple of hours stalking your Instagram profile because,

nekoliko sati vrebajući vaš Instagram profil jer,

you were totally my type and wow.

bili ste totalno moj tip i vau.

I really wanted to meet you.

Stvarno sam te želio upoznati.

So came the day I'm in New York,

Pa je došao dan kad sam u New Yorku, novogodišnja

it's new year's Eve

and I text you hey, what's up.

i pošaljem ti poruku hej, što ima?

What are you doing?

Where are you right now?

You text me back. Oh, I'm in the cinema with my roomie.

Napiši mi poruku. Oh, u kinu sam sa svojom sobicom.

Do you want to come and see the movie with us?

Želite li doći pogledati film s nama?

So at first I was like, Oh Kay,

Tako sam isprva bio, Oh Kay,

it's a bit awkward.

pomalo je neugodno.

We won't be able to talk It's a movie, but

Nećemo moći razgovarati To je film, ali

Hey, let's break the ice that way.

Hej, probijmo led na taj način.

And I remember asking you after the countdown,

I sjećam se da sam vas nakon odbrojavanja pitao, želite

would you like to be my first kiss of 2018?

li biti moj prvi poljubac 2018. godine?

And I remember you saying, fuck ya.

I sjećam se da si rekao, jebi se.

- Well, I had two first impressions of you,

- Pa, imao sam dva prva dojma o vama,

first when I saw you on the app.

prvo kad sam vas vidio u aplikaciji.

And then second, when I actually saw you in person,

A onda drugo, kad sam vas zapravo osobno vidio,

when I first saw you on the app,

kad sam vas prvi put vidio u aplikaciji,

I thought you were like, this really douchey guy,

pomislio sam da ste poput, ovog stvarno glupog tipa,

which like, okay, I could be into that.

koji kao, u redu, mogao bih se baviti time.

But then when I met you in person,

Ali kad sam te osobno upoznao, bio

you were like such a perfect gentleman.

si poput tako savršenog gospodina.

Because of that, I didn't think that it was gonna go,

Zbog toga nisam mislio da će to ići,

anything beyond like maybe like hook up or whatever,

bilo što osim poput, naprimjer, kao što je spoj, ili što već,

'cause I knew you were visiting,

jer sam znao da ste u posjeti,

but then it turned to like a date

ali onda je to postalo poput spoja,

and then it turned into you staying with me for two weeks.

a onda se pretvorilo u to da ostanete sa mnom za dva tjedna.

- Wow. You're totally my type.

- Vau. Ti si potpuno moj tip.

You had really nice feature,

Imao si stvarno lijepu osobinu,

really pretty boy and good sense of fashion.

jako lijepog dječaka i dobar osjećaj za modu.

You came across a bit shy at first,

Isprva ste naišli na pomalo sramežljivog,

but once I got to know you,

ali kad sam vas upoznao,

you were a really funny guy and with a sense of humor,

bili ste stvarno smiješan momak, sa smislom za humor

and you were really witty.

i bili ste jako duhoviti.

All of those things made me fall in love with you.

Sve te stvari natjerale su me da se zaljubim u tebe.

- I think one of the major differences is like,

- Mislim da je jedna od glavnih razlika poput,

more, more about how other people perceive us,

više, više o tome kako nas drugi ljudi doživljavaju,

more so than how we act around each other

više od toga kako se ponašamo jedni oko drugih

or how we live with each other.

ili kako živimo jedni s drugima.

So for example,

Tako, na primjer,

like when we're going out to like a restaurant

kao kad idemo voljeti restoran

or we're looking at like apartments,

ili gledamo kao apartmane,

I do notice that,

I feel like people take me a lot more seriously

osjećam da me ljudi puno ozbiljnije shvaćaju

when you're there.

Whereas before we were together,

Dok prije nego što smo bili zajedno,

when I was just doing all this stuff by myself,

kad sam samo sve to radio,

I feel like people weren't taking me as seriously.

osjećam se kao da me ljudi nisu shvaćali tako ozbiljno.

And that I think was like the major difference,

I to mislim da je bila glavna razlika u

between having you in my life now and before.

tome što sam te imao u životu sada i prije.

- Personally I didn't think there was

- Osobno nisam mislio da postoji

that much of a cultural gap, between us.

toliki kulturni jaz između nas.

I had the chance to live in Asia for a couple of years.

Imao sam priliku živjeti u Aziji nekoliko godina.

So it, it helped with understanding each other's culture

Tako je, pomoglo je razumijevanju međusobne kulture

and expectation.

Of course, there's always some stereotype going around

Naravno, ovdje se uvijek događa neki stereotip

here when you live in America

kad živite u Americi

and you're an interracial couple.

i kada ste međurasni par.

Some people would have opinion of you and thinking

Neki bi ljudi imali mišljenje o vama i misleći

preconceived idea of you.

unaprijed stvorenu ideju o vama.

We got used to not listening to those

Navikli smo se da ih ne slušamo

and living our best life.

i živimo svoj najbolji život.

And that's what I love about us.

I to je ono što volim kod nas.

- My family's reaction weren't great.

- Reakcija moje obitelji nije bila sjajna.

I was pretty private about our relationship.

Bila sam prilično privatna u vezi s našom vezom.

And you were pretty private about our relationship as well

A bili ste i prilično privatni u vezi s našom vezom

because I asked you to you put your Instagram on private,

jer sam vas zamolio da svoj Instagram stavite na privatno,

which I really appreciated.

što sam zaista cijenio.

And even though you're still posting photos of us,

I premda još uvijek objavljujete naše fotografije,

only like, I think, our close friends knew,

samo su, mislim, znali i naši bliski prijatelji,

but somehow our photos got leaked

ali nekako su nam fotografije procurile

and then people started posting them on Facebook,

i onda su ih ljudi počeli objavljivati na Facebooku,

and then at some point,

a onda je u jednom trenutku

there was a news article about us in Vietnam,

objavljen članak o nas u Vijetnamu,

which kind of spread like wildfire.

koji se nekako širio poput požara.

And that's how it all started right?

I tako je sve počelo zar ne?

through that news article,

kroz taj članak vijesti,

and then my family found out, and

a onda je to saznala i moja obitelj,

and it was a mess.

It was a train wreck.

Bila je to olupina vlaka.

It was one of the most emotional nights

Bila je to jedna od najemotivnijih noći

I've ever been through.

koje sam prošao.

You were there, you know,

Bio si tamo, znaš,

I don't think I've ever cried that much in my life,

mislim da nikada u životu nisam toliko plakao,

bilo je suludo.

But I'm glad that it happened because,

Ali drago mi je da se to dogodilo jer

living your life in secrecy is not fun.

živjeti svoj život u tajnosti nije zabavno.

- I hope you know that my family really like you.

- Nadam se da znaš da se mojoj obitelji stvarno sviđaš.

And they're really supportive of us.

I stvarno nas podržavaju.

My mom, my dad, my brothers, my sister in law, my niece,

Moja mama, moj tata, moja braća, moja šogorica, moja nećakinja,

everyone like you

and they greeted you with open arms into their lives.

i dočekali su vas raširenih ruku u svoj život.

And you're part of the family now.

A ti si sada dio obitelji.

I know on your side of the family,

Znam da s vaše strane obitelji

it's not exactly the same thing,

to nije potpuno ista stvar,

but my mom wants you to feel welcome in our family.

ali moja mama želi da se osjećate dobrodošlo u našoj obitelji.

And you will always be a part of it if you want to.

I uvijek ćete biti dio toga ako želite.

- When we started being in a relationship

- Kad smo počeli biti u vezi

or when we got married,

ili kad smo se vjenčali,

I didn't have like a full checklist of,

nisam imao kao potpunu listu onoga

what I wanted in a partner.

što sam želio od partnera.

I know a lot of people have that.

Znam da mnogi ljudi to imaju.

They're like, Oh, someone has to be like 6'2",

Oni su poput, Oh, netko mora biti poput 6'2 ",

and like have to have this kind of job,

i kao da mora imati takav posao,

have to do that. Whatever.

mora to raditi. Što god.

I didn't have that checklist.

Nisam imao taj kontrolni popis.

So I wasn't looking to be in like a longterm relationship.

Dakle, nisam tražio da budem kao dugotrajna veza.

So when we started going out,

Pa kad smo počeli izlaziti,

and then we started going steady,

a onda smo počeli postojano ići,

you sort of made that checklist on your own.

nekako ste sami napravili taj kontrolni popis.

You kind of made me realize what I wanted in a partner.

Nekako ste me natjerali da shvatim što želim od partnera. Bio

You were such a gentleman to me.

si mi takav gospodin .

And I was like, okay, that's what I want a partner. Now,

A ja sam bio kao, u redu, to je ono što ja želim partnera

you basically proved to me that,

Sada, u osnovi pokazalo mi se da,

you're the partner that,

I wanna be with, the partner that I deserve.

želim biti s, partneru da zaslužuju -..

- I don't think there is a moment in time during our

mislim da ne postoji trenutak u vremenu tijekom našeg

relationship that I thought, Oh, I'm choosing him.

odnosa koji sam mislio, Oh, ja sam ga biraju.

Well, of course, when I asked you to be my boyfriend,

pa, naravno, kad sam te pitao da bude moj dečko

is because I felt that we had a good chemistry

je jer sam osjećao da smo imali kemiju dobro

and things were going smoothly,

i stvari idu glatko

the getting married and all that,

je vjenčati se i sve to,

was just, it just happened, like,

jednostavno, dogodilo se,

one thing after the other,

jedno za drugim,

life throws at you.

život vas baca.

And we're just good at living life together.

A mi jednostavno dobro živimo zajedno.

And that's where I felt comfortable, putting down my wall,

I tu sam se osjećao ugodno, putti spusti se niz moj zid,

with you, and being myself and, you know,

s tobom, i biti svoj i, znaš,

putting the effort,

ulažući napor

into showing you that, I love you,

u to da ti pokažem da te volim,

and I wanted to be the one for you,

i htio sam biti taj za tebe,

'cause I felt that you could be the one for me.

jer sam osjećao da ti možeš biti ona za mi.

Yeah, life event just happened.

Da, životni događaj se upravo dogodio.

And there is no straight answer.

I nema izravnog odgovora.

It just, it was meant to be that's all.

Jednostavno, trebalo je biti to je sve.

- I would describe our relationship as like,

- Naš odnos bih opisao kao

a pizza dough, because I feel like we've been kneaded a lot,

tijesto za pizzu, jer osjećam se kao da smo dosta mijesili,

and then we've been put through the burner,

a zatim smo prošli kroz plamenik,

but then we came out fresh and delicious.

ali onda smo izašli svježi i ukusni.

It wasn't an easy relationship.

Nije to bila lagana veza.

And I feel like we've gone through a lot,

I osjećam se kao da smo prošli puno toga,

probably stuff that normal relationships,

vjerojatno stvari koje normalne veze

wouldn't go through,

ne bi mogle proći,

but we came out of it, delicious.

ali iz toga smo izašli, ukusni.

- Spicy, passionate, and always interesting.

- Pikantno, strastveno i uvijek zanimljivo.

Sometimes it's a real roller coaster of emotions.

Ponekad je to pravi valjak za emocije.

We moved around a lot, New York, LA, Montreal,

Puno smo se kretali po New Yorku, LA-u, Montrealu

and I feel that we finally found a place where,

i osjećam da smo napokon pronašli mjesto gdje

we are comfortable, that we have friends and family around.

nam je ugodno, da imamo prijatelje i obitelj u blizini.

And I can't wait to see what life is gonna throw at us.

I jedva čekam vidjeti što će nam život baciti.

- To me was definitely the sponsorship process,

- Za mene je definitivno bio postupak sponzorstva,

of getting me my permanent residency here in Canada,

kojim sam dobio svoje stalno prebivalište ovdje u Kanadi,

because you don't know when it's going to come.

jer ne znate kada će doći.

You don't know if you're gonna get it or not,

Ne znate hoćete li ga dobiti ili ne,

so it was like, a whole year of just stress

pa bilo je to kao, cijelu godinu samo stresa

and wondering if we did anything wrong,

i razmišljanja jesmo li učinili nešto loše,

if we miss any documents,

propuštamo li dokumente,

if we should have done more.

jesmo li trebali učiniti više.

- Just being kept in silence

- Samo što sam bio u tišini

and not knowing for months and months until,

i nisam znao mjesecima i mjesecima dok,

it finally went through,

napokon je to prošlo,

right at the end of the 13 months period,

na kraju razdoblja od 13 mjeseci,

knowing that we'd been through that together,

znajući da smo to prošli zajedno,

it makes me hopeful for the future that we can achieve

čini mi se nadom u budućnost da možemo postići

anything together.

bilo što zajedno.

So I want to start by thanking you because, thanks to you.

Stoga želim započeti zahvaljivanjem jer, zahvaljujući vama.

I learned to believe in myself.

Naučila sam vjerovati u sebe.

I used to have really, a simple vision of,

Nekad sam zaista imao jednostavnu viziju onoga

who I was, my life and what we want to achieve.

tko sam bio, svog života i onoga što želimo postići.

I really appreciate,

that you were there for me, to motivate me.

što ste bili tu za mene da biste me motivirali.

And sometimes it's tough love,

A ponekad je to teška ljubav,

but you had to say,

ali morala si reći,

what I needed to hear to be where I am today.

ono što sam trebala čuti da bih bila tu gdje sam danas.

- I can say that I've matured a lot since we met,

- Mogu reći da sam puno sazrio otkako smo se upoznali,

because you pushed me to do things that I don't think

jer ste me tjerali da radim stvari za koje mislim da ne

I would have done on my own.

bih samostalno.

You made me believe that I was able to somehow monetize my

Natjerali ste me da vjerujem da sam uspio nekako unovčiti svoju

creativity or the skills that I had,

kreativnost ili vještine koje sam imao,

even though I never believed that I could have done it,

iako nikada nisam vjerovao da sam to mogao učiniti,

or could have done anything with it.

ili sam mogao išta učiniti s tim.

But I think since the beginning,

Ali mislim da ste me od početka

you've always been super supportive of me,

uvijek super podržavali,

doing my thing and working and experimenting.

radili svoje i radili i eksperimentirali.

I also learned a lot,

Također sam puno naučio

about how I could be comfortable with myself.

o tome kako bih mogao biti ugodno sa sobom.

Obviously growing up as someone who was deep,

Očito je odrastajući kao netko tko je bio duboko,

deep in the closet,

duboko u ormaru,

it was really hard for me to be able to be public about,

bilo mi je jako teško moći biti javno o tome

who I really am and seeing how comfortable you are

tko sam zapravo i kad vidim koliko vam je ugodno

with your sexuality, with your family and with your friends.

sa vašom seksualnošću, obitelji i prijateljima.

And it was really cool.

I bilo je stvarno super.

And it's what I've always wanted,

I to je ono što sam oduvijek želio,

but I didn't think I could ever reach.

ali nisam mislio da ću ga ikad moći doseći.

So you helped me realize,

Dakle, pomogli ste mi da shvatim,

the person who I've always want to be.

osoba koja oduvijek želim biti.

I know there are times when we argue

Znam da postoje trenuci kada se prepiremo,

and there are times that's been difficult

a ponekad je bilo teško

and we've been put through the ringer.

i prošli smo kroz zvuk.

That's for sure,

but there's not been one time where I'm like,

ali nije bilo vremena kad sam takav,

I don't love you.

da te ne volim.

I've always loved you, all throughout everything,

Oduvijek sam te volio, sve kroz sve,

and I don't think that's something

i mislim da to nije nešto

that's ever going to change ever.

što će se ikad promijeniti.

So, my answer is a definite yes.

Dakle, moj je odgovor definitivno da.

I still love you.

Još uvijek te volim.

- I can say without an ounce of doubt in my mind.

- Mogu reći bez ijedne sumnje u sebi.

Absolutely, Yes.

I still love you.

Još uvijek te volim.

I don't think that will ever change,

Mislim da se to nikada neće promijeniti,

no matter what we go through.

bez obzira kroz što prolazimo.

I'm proud and I can say it out loud,

Ponosan sam i mogu to naglas reći

that I'm in love with Yos.

da sam zaljubljen u Yosa.

And that will never change.

I to se nikada neće promijeniti.

(optimistična glazba)

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