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Excess Baggage - Mufti Menk
Kelebihan Bagasi - Mufti Menk
Many times we end up complaining about people
Sering kali kita mengeluh tentang orang lain
and we promise
dan kita berjanji
that we don't want to be like them,
tidak ingin menjadi seperti mereka,
and we end up
tapi akhirnya kitalah
becoming worse than them
yang menjadi lebih buruk dari mereka
without realizing it.
tanpa disadari.
Because we're pointing fingers
Karena kita menunjuk kepada mereka,
not knowing that the way to change
tidak sadar bahwa perubahan
is actually to begin with yourself.
sebenarnya dimulai dari diri kita sendiri.
(QS. Ar-Ra'd: 11) (...إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمْ...)
(QS. Ar-Ra'd: 11) (...إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمْ...)
"Allah will not change the condition of a nation
"Sesungguhnya Allah tidak merubah keadaan sesuatu kaum
until and unless they don't change themselves."
sehingga mereka merubah keadaan yang ada pada diri mereka sendiri."
Each individual needs to change himself.
Setiap individu perlu mengubah dirinya sendiri.
And I've come across many people
Saya sudah bertemu dengan banyak orang
who don't believe in that verse.
yang tidak percaya dengan ayat itu.
They don't.
Mereka tidak percaya.
They say, "Well, there's a problem there.
Mereka bilang, "Masalahnya kan di sana.
Why should I change myself?"
Kenapa aku yang harus berubah?"
Well, that's Allah, your Maker telling you,
Ya, itulah Allah, Pencipta Anda yang memerintahkan,
"You have to adjust yourself."
"Anda harus menyesuaikan diri."
When there's an issue and a problem,
Ketika masalah muncul,
it might be that that person is harassing you,
mungkin orang lain melecehkan,
troubling you, making your life difficult,
mengganggu dan menyulitkan hidup Anda,
but you need to at the same time
tetapi pada saat yang sama
look at how you're reacting,
Anda perlu melihat bagaimana reaksi Anda,
how you are...
bagaimana Anda...
Perhaps you might have caused a situation,
Mungkin Anda malah menyebabkan situasi,
and now you're sitting with it,
di mana sekarang Anda tidak melakukan apa-apa,
and you're just blaming everyone else
dan hanya menyalahkan orang lain saja
because they've become worse
karena menganggap mereka lebih buruk
than you.
daripada Anda.
They've become worse than you
Mereka menjadi lebih buruk dari Anda
as a result of what you triggered off.
sebagai hasil dari reaksi yang Anda berikan.
And this is why it's important for us to know
Inilah mengapa penting bagi kita untuk memahami
that Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) keeps reminding us
Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) terus mengingatkan kita
about ourselves.
tentang diri kita sendiri.
You know if you have to adjust yourself,
Tahukah Anda jika Anda harus menyesuaikan diri,
you have to become more conscious of yourself,
Anda harus menjadi lebih sadar akan diri sendiri,
you have to develop yourself, and so on.
Anda harus mengembangkan diri, dan seterusnya.
It's the beginning point.
Ini adalah titik awalnya.
It might not solve the whole problem,
Mungkin tidak akan menyelesaikan kesuluruhan masalah,
but the minimum is
tapi minimalnya
it's going to make you look at matters
hal itu akan membuat Anda melihat masalah
from a different light.
dari sudut pandang yang berbeda.
It's going to make you look at things
Hal itu akan membuat Anda melihat sesuatu
from different light.
dari sudut pandang yang berbeda.
I'm in a situation for example,
Saya dalam situasi misalnya,
I love my spouse,
saya mencintai pasangan saya,
but I'm having an issue with the broader family.
tapi saya punya masalah dengan keluarga besarnya.
Well, I can tell you
Bisa saya katakan,
I'm going to have to live with that
saya harus bisa menerimanya
to a certain degree.
sampai di tingkat tertentu.
And what that degree is differs,
Dan tingkat tertentu itu berbeda,
from situation to situation,
dari situasi ke situasi,
and perhaps will also differ
dan mungkin juga akan berbeda
based on how I deal with it.
berdasarkan pada bagaimana saya menghadapinya.
So, If I deal with it in a proper way,
Jadi, jika saya menanganinya dengan cara yang tepat,
perhaps I will be able to minimize the issue,
mungkin akan dapat meminimalkan masalah ini,
and I will be able to look at it
dan akan dapat melihatnya
with a broad heart.
dengan hati yang luas.
You know,
Tahukah Anda
when you hold everything in your heart,
ketika Anda menahan segala sesuatu di hati,
you become a person filled with hatred.
Anda menjadi orang yang penuh dengan kebencian.
Filled with so much of negativity
Penuh dengan banyak hal negatif
because you're holding to much.
karena Anda terlalu mempertahankannya.
You don't need to hold so much,
Anda tidak perlu terlalu mempertahankannya,
you need to learn to let go of things.
Anda perlu belajar untuk merelakan banyak hal.
It's like when you arrive at the airport,
Seperti ketika Anda tiba di bandara,
and you're told you only allowed
Anda diberitahu hanya diperbolehkan
one piece 20 kilos.
membawa 20 kilogram per koper.
Have you heard that?
Pernah Anda dengar hal itu?
Nowadays, they may allow you
Saat ini, mereka membolehkan Anda
2 pieces, 23 kilos each.
membawa 2 koper, masing-masing 23 kilogram.
If one of them is more than 23,
Jika salah satunya lebih dari 23 kilogram,
you have a problem.
limit bagasi Anda bermasalah.
And if both are more than 46,
Dan jika keduanya lebih dari 46 kilogram,
you're going to have to shed some of it.
Anda harus mengeluarkannya sebagian.
Now,
Sekarang,
those of you who visited India and Pakistan,
bagi Anda yang mengunjungi India dan Pakistan,
perhaps even Bangladesh.
bahkan mungkin Bangladesh.
Those of you who visited folks
Anda yang mengunjungi keluarga
who live in some of those countries.
yang tinggal di beberapa negara tersebut.
Don't you notice that sometimes
Tidakkah Anda perhatikan kadang-kadang
out of their love.
karena saking sayangnya mereka.
They give you things
Mereka memberi Anda oleh-oleh
that you don't know how you're gonna take back.
yang Anda tidak tahu bagaimana Anda akan membawanya pulang.
Subhanallah...
Subhanallah...
And then you start packing things into your bag
Anda mulai mengemas barang-barang ke dalam koper
and you were promising before the journey that I,
dan berjanji sebelum perjalanan,
"I'm not going to be a typical traveler
"Aku tidak akan seperti pelancong kebanyakan
where my bags are more than my own weight."
yang isi tasnya lebih dari berat badanku sendiri."
Subhanallah...
Subhanallah...
But guess what happens,
Tapi coba tebak apa yang terjadi,
you end up picking up things
Anda akhirnya tetap membawa pulang banyak barang
and you bring them to the airport and you say,
dan membawanya ke bandara dan berkata,
"Insha Allah it will go."
"Insya Allah ini tidak kelebihan."
And you smile at the people trying to look at it
Anda tersenyum pada petugas yang melihatnya
and then when they tell you there is a problem,
kemudian ketika mereka memberitahu limit bagasi,
"You have to remove 5 kilos."
"Anda harus kurangi 5 kilo."
And then you say,
Lalu Anda bilang,
"Well, maybe I'll take it in my hand."
"Kalau begitu, sisanya aku bawa sendiri saja."
What are you doing?
Apa yang Anda lakukan?
You have excess baggage. That's what it is.
Anda kelebihan bagasi. Itulah yang terjadi.
We have excess baggage in our relationships.
Kita punya 'kelebihan bagasi' dalam hubungan kita.
We have to make a plan,
Kita harus membuat rencana,
shed something.
mengeluarkannya sebagian.
You have to shed it whether, you like it or not.
Anda harus merelakannya, suka atau tidak.
Or you have to take it in your hand luggage.
Atau harus membawanya di tas jinjing Anda.
May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) forgive us.
Semoga Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) memaafkan kita.
You have to release certain things.
Anda harus mengeluarkan barang-barang tertentu.
It's a weight. It's a burden.
Ini berat. Ini beban.
Just like when you've arrived there,
Sama seperti ketika Anda sudah sampai di sana,
and you need to now get rid of 10 kilos for example,
dan sekarang harus menyingkirkan 10 kilo misalnya,
or 5.
atau 5 kilo.
You open your bags
Anda membuka koper
and you start thinking right,
dan mulai berpikir dengan benar,
"These peanuts, we don't need them.
"Kacang ini, kita tidak butuh ini.
We get them back in England."
Kita bisa beli di Inggris."
"These pistachios we get them back in England."
"Pistachio ini bisa beli di Inggris."
I have a policy.
Saya punya aturan.
Anyone of my relatives gives me
Siapa pun kerabat yang memberi saya
pistachios, peanuts, etcetera.
pistachio, kacang tanah, dan lain-lain.
Things that I can get at my destination.
Barang-barang yang bisa saya dapatkan di tempat tujuan saya.
I tell them,
Saya bilang kepada mereka,
"Listen, I'm giving it away.
"Dengar, aku akan berikan ini semua.
I'll carry nothing."
Aku tidak akan membawa apa-apa."
"And when I go there
Saat aku sampai tujuan,
I'll purchase whatever you've given me,
aku akan membeli apa pun yang kamu berikan
the equivalent of it and give it."
setara dengan itu lalu memberikannya ke orang rumah."
It's cheaper and better for me two ways.
Lebih murah dan lebih baik bagi saya dalam dua hal.
One is weight wise
Yang pertama secara berat koper
and even monetary wise.
dan bahkan secara finansial.
Subhanallah...
Subhanallah...
I gave someone else a gift
Saya memberi orang lain hadiah
and then when I got home.
dan kemudian ketika saya sampai di rumah.
I bought a similar gift and gave it
Saya membeli oleh-oleh serupa dan memberikannya ke orang rumah
because you could get it there.
karena Anda bisa mendapatkannya di sana.
The same applies in our relationships.
Hal yang sama berlaku dalam hubungan kita.
Wallahi my brothers and sisters,
Wallahi saudara-saudariku,
I have learned from it myself,
Saya sendiri telah belajar dari hal itu,
if you want to lead a positive life.
jika Anda ingin menjalani kehidupan yang positif.
You need to be prepared to let go of petties.
Anda harus siap untuk merelakan hal-hal yang kurang penting.
Let go. Don't hold it against the people.
Relakan. Jangan memendamnya.
We all have weaknesses, myself included.
Kita semua punya kelemahan, termasuk saya sendiri.
Some of them are big weaknesses.
Sebagiannya adalah kelemahan besar.
So, as much as you can let go, let it go.
Jadi, sebanyak yang Anda bisa lepaskan, lepaskanlah.
It will help you.
Itu akan membantu Anda.
It will really help you.
Ini akan sangat membantu Anda.
And think of the good of people.
Dan pikirkanlah kebaikan orang lain.
Go out of your way
Carilah,
to think of the good.
pikirkan kebaikan.
What goodness does this person have
Kebaikan apa yang dimiliki orang lain
and I don't know.
dan yang tidak saya ketahui.
If you're being oppressed,
Jika Anda tertekan,
when I talk of oppression here,
maksud saya dengan tertekan di sini,
I'm talking of you really are struggling
saya berbicara tentang Anda yang benar-benar berjuang
with your mind.
dengan pikiran Anda.
You're really...
Anda benar-benar...
you've try to forgive as much as you can,
berusaha untuk memaafkan semampu yang Anda bisa,
and you're struggling so much.
dan Anda sangat berjuang.
It becomes much more difficult
Ini menjadi jauh lebih sulit
to actually live with such people.
untuk tinggal bersama orang-orang seperti itu.
So, we need to promise.
Maka, kita harus berjanji.
We are going to become the best
Kita akan menjadi yang terbaik
to those whom we live with,
kepada mereka yang tinggal bersama kita,
whoever they are.
siapa pun mereka.
You go home, make sure you know,
Anda pulang, pastikan Anda tahu,
and you understand that you have pledged
dan pahami komitmen Anda
that you're going to make life good and easy,
bahwa Anda akan membuat hidup menjadi baik dan mudah,
and facilitate it for those whom you live with
dan memfasilitasi mereka yang tinggal bersama Anda,
because charity definitely begins at home.
karena sedekah itu dimulai dari rumah.
The Prophet (ﷺ) says,
Nabi (ﷺ) berkata,
"The best of you are those who are best to their wives,
"Sebaik-baik kalian adalah yang terbaik bagi istrinya,
their family members."
yang terbaik bagi keluarganya."
So, that's what happens.
Maka, itulah yang terjadi.
It's not going to be easy.
Hal ini tidak akan mudah.
That's why you're consider the best
Itu sebabnya Anda dipandang yang terbaik
because you're different.
karena Anda berbeda.
People are going to think differently.
Orang akan berpikir secara berbeda.
But if I'm thinking how to make life easy for you,
Tapi, jika saya berpikir bagaimana membuat hidup mudah bagi Anda,
and you're thinking how to make life easy for me,
dan Anda berpikir bagaimana membuat hidup mudah bagi saya,
then subhanallah, we have a brilliant relationship.
maka subhanallah, kita akan mendapatkan hubungan yang gemilang.
It's going to be beautiful.
Hubungan yang indah.
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