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As-Salāmu ‘alaykum wa raḥmatu Llāhi wa barakātuh.
As-Salāmu ‘alaykum wa raḥmatu Llāhi wa barakātuh.
A‘ūdhu biLlāhi mina sh-shayṭāni r-rajīm. Bismi Llāhi r-Raḥmāni r-Raḥīm.
A‘ūdhu biLlāhi mina sh-shayṭāni r-rajīm. Bismi Llāhi r-Raḥmāni r-Raḥīm.
Aṣ-ṣalātu wa s-Salāmu ‘alá Rasūlinā Muḥammadin Sayyidi l-awwalīn
Aṣ-ṣalātu wa s-Salāmu ‘alá Rasūlinā Muḥammadin Sayyidi l-awwalīn
wa l-ākhirīn. Madad yā Rasūla Llāh, madad yā Sādāti Aṣḥābi Rasūli Llāh,
wa l-ākhirīn. Madad yā Rasūla Llāh, madad yā Sādāti Aṣḥābi Rasūli Llāh,
madad yā Mashāyikhinā, dastūr yā Shaykh ‘Abdu Llāh al-Fā’iz ad-Dāghistānī,
madad yā Mashāyikhinā, dastūr yā Shaykh ‘Abdu Llāh al-Fā’iz ad-Dāghistānī,
Shaykh Muḥammad Nāẓim al-Ḥaqqānī. Madad.
Shaykh Muḥammad Nāẓim al-Ḥaqqānī. Madad.
Ṭarīqatunā ṣ-ṣuḥbah wa l-khayru fi l-jam‘iyyah.
Ṭarīqatunā ṣ-ṣuḥbah wa l-khayru fi l-jam‘iyyah.
It says: "Aṭ-ṭarīqatu taḥammulu l-aḍdād."
Aṭ-ṭarīqatu taḥammulu l-aḍdād diyor.
Tarīqah is to accept and
Tarikat zıtları
endure opposition.
kabul etmek, zıtlara tahammül etmek.
You need to tolerate
Senin beğenmediğin şeylere
the things you do not like.
tahammül edeceksin.
That is how ṭarīqah people are.
Tarikat ehli öyle olur.
The regular Muslim gets angry
Normal Müslüman
at the smallest thing
en ufak bir şeye parlar, kızar,
and could start a fight.
kavga edebilir yani. Ama
However, one needs to tolerate it and
tarikat ehli olunca ona
be patient when one is a person of ṭarīqah.
tahammül etmesi lazım, ona sabretmesi lazım.
Even if one does not like it,
Hoşuna gitmese de
he needs to endure and be patient.
tahammül edip, sabredecek.
This is the way of the Shaykhs.
Meşayıhların yolları budur.
When you face something you do not like
Bir şeyle karşılaşıp
and you say,
hoşuna gitmedi,
"This is also from Allāh ﷻ,"
bu da Allah'tandır ﷻ deyip
and you are patient,
tahammül etmek sana
it makes your station rise.
dereceni yükseltir,
It makes you gain rewards.
sevap kazandırır.
You become valuable in the sight of Allāh ﷻ.
Allah ﷻ katında muteber olursun. Daha
You go higher. However,
yüksek olursun. Ama insanın
people agree with their ego when they are capable of not.
hali olunca nefsine tabi olur.
Their ego says: "No, don't be like that.
Nefsi; yok sen böyle olmaz,
You need to answer him. If he has done
senin cevap vermen lazım, sana bir şey yaptıysa
something to you, you need to do twice
senin ona iki mislini yapman lazım ki
as much so he may take lesson and get better."
aklı başına gelsin, akıllansın diye.
You do that, and the matter grows.
Yaparsın o vakit daha da büyür iş.
It gets worse.
Daha kötü olur.
This time it harms you too.
Bu defa zararı
Whereas, it is not useful
sana da dokunur. Halbuki
for the Hereafter either.
bir faydası da olmaz ahiret için.
Most people can speak against others.
Çoğu insan başkasının aleyhine
They might not like someone.
konuşabilir. Başkasını sevmeyebilir.
Now for that person
Şimdi o insan
to know this and
bunu bilip de tahammül etmesi
tolerate it, is a greater character.
o da büyük bir meziyettir.
It is
Büyük bir
a great power.
kuvvettir.
Patience is power.
Sabretmek kuvvet,
Patience, meaning the person who can be patient
sabretmek yani sabredebilen insan
is the powerful person. The powerful person is not
odur kuvvetli insan. Kuvvetli insan
the one with muscles and the like,
adeleleriyle şeyle değil
but the one who is patient with that situation.
o hale sabreden insan
Even though he is able to respond,
ona karşılık verecek halde olduğu halde
he is patient and acts as if he did not hear it.
ona sabredip de duymamış gibi yapmak.
Or even if he heard it, he does not
Yahut hiç duysa bile
take it into consideration at all.
ona itibar etmemek
As our Holy Prophet ﷺ said,
Peygamber Efendimiz'in ﷺ dediği gibi onun
it is proof of the strength of that person.
o insanın kuvvetli olmasına delalettir.
It is End Times now,
Şimdi ahir zamandır,
and there are many things
bir hayli şey eskiden
we did not hear about before.
bu kadar duyulmazdı. Şimdi
Now, a man comes out and
adamın biri çıkıyor, işte bu
using these tools and gadgets,
alet edevatın içinde bilgisayar mıydı
computers and phones,
telefon muydu şimdi her taraftan
they write things against each other.
birbirlerine bir şeyler söylüyor. Biri söylüyor ötekisi
One says one thing and the other says three things
üç misli söylüyor. Halbuki
whereas, you should not mind it at all.
hiç ona bakmamak lazım. Bana
There are plenty of people who wonder
bugün acaba ne söylediler benim hakkımda diye
what people have said about them today.
çok insan var.
Those who are watching and reading:
Bakan eden, nedir
"What did they say today? What did they do today?"
bugün ne söylediler, ne ettiler,
They look to see what people said about them.
benim hakkımda ne dediler diye bakıyor.
"Oh, good." Sometimes it is not bad, they said good things.
Ha iyi bazen de fena değil güzel söylemişler.
Some said bad things. "I'll show you! How dare you?
Bazıları kötü söylemiş. Vay sen misin söyleyen.
You're so lowly. You're so vile,"
Senin haddine mi, sen ne alçaksın, sen ne adisin,
and I don't know what. They start cursing.
ne bilmem ne başlar sövmeye küfretmeye.
This is your situation. He is making
Senin halin böyledir, o ondan daha beter eder.
you worse than himself. In the meantime,
Derken bu boş
through this empty talk,
münakaşayla hem günaha girmiş olurlar,
they both commit sin and feel bad.
hem canları sıkılmış olur. Hem
You become disregarded people
Allah ﷻ katında, Peygamber ﷺ katında
in the sight of Allāh ﷻ and the Prophet ﷺ.
itibarı olmayan insanlar olursunuz.
Whereas, if you never look at it, or if you do look at it and
Halbuki hiç bakmadan, baksan bile, haberin olsa bile
are aware of it, you do not pay attention to it,
onlara itibar etmeyip
and you do not say anything back,
onlara hiçbir şey söylememek
it makes your station rise.
senin mertebeni yükseltir.
We are saying this because while in the
Bunu söylüyoruz çünkü şimdi
past someone would gossip and another
anında, eskiden birisi
would come to you telling about it, now it is immediate
gıybet eder, gidip ona söyler sana böyle söyledi diye,
and there is no need for that.
şimdi ona gerek kalmadı.
Gossip, backbiting, defamation and lying
Gıybet, nemime, buhtan, yalancılık makineleri
machines are everywhere. Slander...
her tarafta var, iftira.
They look. There is no need for anybody.
Bakıyor, başkasına gerek kalmıyor,
They look and tell. Now, in this matter,
kendi bakıp söylüyor. Şimdi bu meselede
we need to not look at all. If you look, so if
hiç bakmamak lazım. Baksan
you glance, you should not take it into consideration.
yani gözüne ilişse bile itibar etmemek lazım.
It could be that someone else might tell
Başkası söylese bile olabilir yani senin
you and you hear that the person is such and such.
duyarsın bu adam şöyledir böyledir.
You need to not say anything.
Ona da hiçbir şey söylememek
Allāh ﷻ will do the defending.
Allah ﷻ sana müdafaayı Allah ﷻ yapar.
He ﷻ will send the angels to defend you against that person.
Melekleri gönderir sana ona karşı müdafaa eder.
If you attempt to tell him by yourself,
Yok sen kalkarsın onunla kendi kendine
then you would not be able to get out of the situation.
söylemeye bu defa işin içinden çıkamazsın.
And most of the time
Çoğu zaman da
bigger problems result.
daha büyük problemler hasıl olur.
There, being patient in this situation
İşte burada sabretmek
is what we mean for people.
dediğimiz gibi yani insan bazı
They told a walī that someone
evliyalar bu adam sana şöyle söyledi demişler,
said such and such about him.
Allah Allah demiş, ya bu adam
He said, "Subḥāna Llāh. Let me thank
teşekkür edeyim ki
that man since he insulted my ego.
benim nefsimi zem etti.
He didn't do it enough.
Az bile söyledi diyor.
My ego is even worse."
Benim nefsim daha kötüdür.
That is how we should be. When they say
Böyle olmak lazım. Bir şey dediler mi
something: "Our ego deserves it. It is evil.
bizim nefsimiz müstahaktır, kötüdür.
Our ego deserves all sorts of
Her türlü hakarete, her türlü şeye
insults and all."
layıktır nefsimiz.
There is no need to respond to those people.
O adamlara da cevap gerekmez.
May Allāh ﷻ make everyone able
Allah ﷻ herkesi nefsine hakim olmaya
to control their ego.
muktedir etsin.
May we not be tricked into such
Bu türlü şeytanın
games of shayṭān, in shā’a Llāh. Prophet ﷺ saying to be strong. Who is strong, who is controling himself, because this
oyunlarına gelmeyelim in shā’a Llāh.
time we are living in, time many people they like to argue, to say something for each other. Shayṭān give blow [up] their ego, they thought they are
big and other not good. And beginning to say bad thing for people. This is time of this kind of thing
but what we will do? We must not listen to this. Don't be coming to saying something against this people because their ego they are
controling them and if you are try to say something for them you are saying from your ego also. Because Prophet ﷺ
saying no need to argue, no need to say something. Allāh ﷻ defend, "Inna Llāha yudāfi‘u ‘ani l-mu’minīn," Allāh ﷻ He defend for mu’min. This time also. Before it was somebody
coming and saying, "This man saying for this for you, this saying that for you." But this time no need for this, there is whole this machine – telephone, computer,
other thing – they are doing this. And people they are only looking for this today. "What this people saying for me?" He open. "Oh he say...
Okay didn't say anything." And looking other, "Oh what is this? He is saying this for me? How dare he is saying this, he is saying for me?
I will tell what he is reality. He is like this. He is crazy. He is liar. He is untrustful. He..." He reply other reply also and became big.
But to strong one, what Prophet ﷺ saying – strong to not listening to this thing. Allāh ﷻ will defend for him. Shayṭān making people to speak
against each other. Now no need for people to speak, there is machine. Before to come from one to other, maybe need some days to tell him. Now in one minute.
Beginning to look for each other, to swear, swear of each other, to say bad thing for each other. This machine for making gossip and making speaking
against each other and making lie for people who are not doing anything. They saying something. They never done bad thing. This machine like this so don't
look and to be angry for this. Even you are knowing this people they are saying something for you, don't be sad or angry because you didn't
do wrong thing. They are doing. They must be sad because when you are be silent, Allāh ﷻ reward you and make your level higher.
You coming higher and higher. But if you are beginning to barking, to speak to this against, you will be have no reward and your level coming down also.
Many people, the most of people this time, they are following their ego. Quickly coming angry for everything. Okay we can, we know people they can speak against you
and you are doing, going quickly saying for them, "What are you doing? What you said this, you said that." And become big problem.
But if you are keep quiet, it will be Allāh ﷻ reward you also and no problem and you will be happy. There is one big Awliyā’u Llāh.
They was saying, this man he was saying, sending one letter for him and was saying everything in this letter. And he [the Awliyā'] give money for his
servant and [said], "Take this for this man. Thank him for this because he said for our ego what we our ego deserve this.
And he make this, and he also give us from his rewards because he... in Ākhirah when you say something like this,
Allāh ﷻ will take from your reward give for other man. And this is for money for this wages, his wages he will give us from his reward in Ākhirah
and this dunyā. We thanking for his saying for our ego what he said in this letter and it is even not enough, for our ego it is more bad than this what he said."
And when he, other one, when he see this, he be becoming asking for forgiveness and saying, "Forgive me for what I done. I, I regret for this."
Old people they was looking for order of Prophet ﷺ – how to be behave. Now they are teaching in everywhere,
"You must be defend yourself. Don't be afraid. You must speak. You must say..." No. When you say this, it be become more problem. If you,
you know and keep quite also it is good because you know and Allāh ﷻ know. Allāh ﷻ help people to not follow their ego because this is from ṭarīqah.
Taḥammu l-aḍdād – ṭarīqah meaning to be can carry thing, tolerate, tolerate. But there are people coming against you,
everything may be difficult for you, you must be accept and carry. Not to attack and not be refuse or to not be not happy with this. This is ṭarīqah
and this is the most difficult thing. When people saying something for you and you can reply but you didn't reply – it realy difficult for people.
Allāh ﷻ help us to be real in ṭarīqah and following this order, in shā’a Llāh. Wa min Allāhi t-tawfīq, al-Fātiḥah.
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