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people think I'm that because you

People think I'm Dutch...

said well that's before I direct towards

Because you're so assertive! What... rude? When Dutch people are direct towards me...

me in the beginning it was shocked that

in the beginning it was a shock.

people are quite direct to the point of

Dutch people are quite direct...

becoming routine certain occasions a lot

to the point of becoming rude on certain occasions.

of people told me that the Dutch are

A lot of people told me that the Dutch are very rude.

very rude I think it's the directness

I think: it's the directness can be interpreted

can be interpreted as released by some

as rudeness by some people...

people especially if you're not used to

especially if you're not used to it.

it sometimes it can like come off as

Sometimes it can come off as rude,

rude but I think you just have to get

but I think you just have to get used to the directness

used to the directness that they have

that they have here,

here because that's just the culture I'm

because that's just the culture.

not used to it so that's strange I find

I'm not used to it. So... it's strange.

little direct I don't find I just accept

I find them direct. I don't find them rude.

the best the way they speak it's not

I just accept that that's the way they speak.

they could be nicer yeah I don't think

It's not rude... they could be nicer.

they mean to be rude but they're very

I don't think they mean to be rude,

direct yeah I don't know if it's me

but they're very direct.

personally or my culture but I'm very

I don't know if it's me personally or my culture,

sensitive what is considered rude it

but I'm very sensitive. What is considered rude...

depends on which country or culture you

it depends on what country or culture you are in.

are in being there and in Chinese culture in Australia it's considered

Being direct in Chinese culture is quite rude. In Australia it's considered very rude

very rude if you speak your mind and

if you speak your mind and it's not liked

it's not liked by the party you are

by the party you are speaking to.

speaking to the beldon's don't really say what they want to say

The Belgians don't really say what they want to say.

the culture that of where it came from

The culture where I came from...

we use a lot of forces we also cover if

we use a lot of words.

you want to say something which is

We also cover if you want to say something

something also I don't like it may sound

which is something I don't like either.

a bit harsh because we generally wish

It may sound a bit harsh,

soft innit I mean it's nicer to soften

because we generally... we soften it.

it if I was at a party in Canada and

I mean, it's nicer to soften it. If I was at a party in Canada,

someone had spinach in their teeth no

and someone had spinach in their teeth...

one would say anything to that person

no one would say anything to that person

and they would find out when they go

and they would find out when they go home.

home here in the Netherlands someone

Here, in the Netherlands...

would blurt out in front of everyone you

someone would blurt out in front of everyone:

have some spinach in your teeth

You have some spinach in your teeth!

they're more direct than those soldiers

I would say it's true...

coming over here when I would talk to a

They're more direct than most cultures. Coming over here, whenever I talk to a Dutch person...

Dutch person they always tell me exactly

they always tell me exactly what they're thinking.

what they're thinking there are things that they say straight to the point at

There are things that they say straight to the point.

the beginning I was really shocked about

At the beginning I was really shocked

the way they say it really bum bum bum I

about the way they say it really:

want to make internship here and I

bam-bam-bam! I want to do an internship here,

applied for many many schools here one

and I applied for many many schools here.

of the answer that I got we don't have

One of the answers that I got:

time for your stashes apply another

We don't have time for your 'stage' (internship).

where else thank you wish you good luck and it

Apply somewhere else! Thank you, wish you good luck. I was like: what!?

was a manager of school I work in design

What is this? And it was the manager of the school. And I was like...

and I need to do cool stuff pretty stuff

I work in design... and I need to do cool stuff, pretty stuff...

my boss or my colleague is gonna come

My boss or my colleague is gonna come and say:

and say this is so uninspiring his right

this is so uninspiring.

even myself I know this is on my best

He's right. Even myself...

we had a very funny neighbor and he was

I know this is not my best work. We had a very funny neighbour.

very direct with us about the noise from

And he was very direct with us

our dogs are from you know if we flush

about the noise from our dogs, or...

the toilet in the middle of the night

if we flush the toilet in the middle of the night.

but but that's good then I know what how

But that's good!

to act around him as his neighbor it was

Then I know how to act around him as his neighbour...

instead of him just being either

instead of him just being...

pretending to be polite and pleased or

either pretending to be polite and pleased

being ruffled as I was not knowing why

or being gruff with us

just that times that I've had a few

and us not knowing why. There were times that

disagreements with my partner and then

I've had a few disagreements with my partner.

I'll say that was uncalled for and who

And then I would say: that was uncalled for...

say no come on I'm touched and I know

and he would say: no, come on... I'm Dutch!

you're not allowed to use they like

And then I said: no! You're not allowed to use that phrase 'I am Dutch'.

praise I'm Dutch days being rude or

There is being rude or hurting someone's feelings.

hurting someone's feelings and it's

And there is being Dutch.

being Dutch they're two different things

They are two different things.

don't mix them it can go overboard when

Don't mix them! It can go overboard

you don't consider the person you're

when you don't consider the person you're talking to

talking to and then you can add a touch

and then you can either hurt their feelings

of their feelings or break a working

or break a working relation.

relationship being director pros and

Being direct has pros and cons.

cons the process you don't need to find

The pros is: you don't need to find what is underneath...

what is underneath so you easily get to know what he want to say so that is

so, you easily get to know what he wants to say.

really good but in some instances if

So, that is really good.

you're given an assignment you give it

But in some instances... If you're given an assignment...

everything correct out of 100 98 of them

If you give it everything correct out of 100,

are correct which can say yeah least or

98 of them are correct...

wrong get it done that's the something

the Dutch can say: yeah, these 2 are wrong... get it done! So, that's something maybe

maybe Dutch also need to learn since

the Dutch also need to learn

you're working internationally a lot in

since you're working internationally a lot.

the work environment if you had direct

In a work environment...

you go straight to him for making so

if you are direct, you go straight to the point...

much easier here's when I was working my

it makes things so much easier. That's actually very true.

Dutch colleagues it was perfect like

Here, when I was working with my Dutch colleagues...

emails through three lines straight to

it was perfect! Like e-mails: 3 lines.

the point done for me it was like sort

Straight to the point. Done! For me it was sort of relaxing.

of relaxing at least someone said what

At least someone said what he wants.

he wants that's that's refreshing from

That's refreshing from my point of view.

my point of view I appreciate that

I appreciate that,

because it doesn't leave me confused

because it doesn't leave me confused

about what they really think or feel the

about what they really think or feel.

objective is not for you to feel bad

The objective is not for you to feel bad about it.

about it so if they do it so you can actually know what didn't go properly

They do it so you can actually know

and what you can change and I think that

what didn't go properly and what you can change.

comes from just being historically a

And I think that comes from being historically

very analytical people we have a great

very analytical people.

because they always you know not

They have a great mind,

encourage themselves I think it also

they not only encourage themselves...

encourages all that people dare to think

they also encourage other people

and I dare to do something I really like

to dare to think. And dare to do something.

about the Dutch is it they're very

What I really like about the Dutch...

direct which and they're very blunt but

is that they are very direct and they're very blunt,

they are also very friendly I think that

but they are also very friendly.

they are direct or very direct but in in

I think that they are direct... or very direct,

good sense yes it's it's very nice [Music]

but in a good sense... Yes, it's very nice... really!

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