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And this one's a big one, okay?

Den her er lidt svær, okay?

Okay. Okay, um...

Did you love me?

Elskede du mig?

Hi, I'm Paulo and I'm a director here at Jubilee.

Hej, Jeg er Paulo og jeg er en direktør i Jubilee.

As you all know, we've been living in this global pandemic and

Som i allesammen godt ved, lever vi i denne pandemi

time of social isolation

og hvor vi har holdt afstand fra hinanden,

and I've been sensing that people are feeling lonely

og jeg føler at folk føler sig ensom

and longing for human connection.

og længes efter mennesker.

More people have been calling their families and friends, doing group calls.

Flere folk har ringet til deres familier og venner, hvor de laver gruppeopkald, og det har bare fået mig til at realisere

And it just made me realize that this is a perfect opportunity for people to reconnect.

at det her er en perfekt chance for folk at få kontakt igen.

And so we wanted to make a series where we challenge people to muster up the courage, get out of their comfort zones, and

Så vi vil gerne lave en serie, hvor vi udfordrer folk til at få skruet op for modet

call people they might have had a falling-out with.

og ringe til folk, som de måske ikke har snakket med særlig meget.

I am calling an old friend.

Jeg ringer til en gammel ven.

Well, I'm calling my dad.

Jeg ringer til min far.

Jeg ringer til min ex kæreste.

my ex-boyfriend. I'm about to call my dad.

Jeg skal til at ringe til min far.

Some reached out,

Nogle ringede og fik kontakt igen

reconnected and took the leap.

og tog springet.

When I was younger I actually moved to Alaska.

Da jeg var yngre flyttede jeg faktisk til Alaska.

When I got there I was a loner,

Da jeg flyttede var jeg et ensomt barn.

I was the kid that no one really talked to, I was the loser, but not Kim.

Jeg var barnet, som ingen rigtig snakkede med.

She definitely was the one that spoke to me.

Men ikke Kim, hun var ihvertfald hende som snakkede med mig.

She accepted me for who I was.

Hun accepterede mig for hvem jeg var.

I want to ask her if the reason why she stopped talking to me was because she had a boyfriend.

Jeg vil gerne spørge hende om det var fordi hun fik en kæreste, at hun stoppede at snakke med mig.

I'm calling my dad. I feel like he neglected me as a daughter. There were so many lies,

Jeg ringer til min far. Jeg føler at han ikke gav mig nok opmærksomhed og støtte som barn.

there is so much mistrust.

Der var så mange løgne,

I really want to connect and understand if he still sees me as his daughter or

der var så meget mistillid. Jeg vil rigtig gerne få kontakt til ham igen og spørge ham om han stadig ser mig som hans datter,

if he's still willing to see me in the future.

og om han stadig gerne vil se mig i fremtiden.

I guess you can say he was like my first love, you know.

Du kan vel sige at han var mit første kærlighed.

Like, that somebody you're always gonna have the most feelings for.

Det er sådan en person man altid har

The day that we kind of just ended it

flest følelser for.

was the day he told me that he was signing another six-year contract to go to Guam.

Dagen, hvor vi bare stoppede det hele, var også dagen han sagde han skrev under en 6 årig kontrakt for at komme til Guam.

And he was like, "I think we should just be friends." and that was like the last thing we said to each other. So...

Han sagde at vi bare skulle være venner. Og det var det sidste han sagde til mig.

I still want to express like the fact that I'm still like in love with him,

Jeg vil stadig vise ham at jeg stadig har følelser for ham,

but it's also like we left off at like a weird spot.

men det er også fordi vi stoppede på et mærkeligt tidspunkt.

My dad has been in and out of my life.

Min far har været ind og ud af mit liv.

Around sixth grade I decided, you know, not to have anything-

Omkring 6. klasse

I didn't wanna have anything to do with him and you know, he reached out to me many times, but I kept denying his effort.

bestemte jeg mig at jeg ikke ville have noget at gøre med ham. han prøvede at få kontakt med mig mange gange, men jeg blev med at afvise ham.

Around this time last year,

Omkring denne tid sidste år,

I was in a fatal car accident and during rehab, I was isolated most of the time so I had a *lot* of

var jeg i en fatal bilulykke, og mens jeg var igang med at komme mig Var jeg isoleret det meste af tiden, så jeg havde rigtig meget tid

time and room for you know self-reflection and improvement and that's why I'm here today, taking the leap.

og tid til at tænke på mine hændelser og forberedelser og det også derfor jeg er her idag.

Even last night knowing that I was gonna do this, I couldn't sleep.

Igår nat kunne jeg ikke rigtig sove.

I just... I... my mind is just racing. It's going a thousand miles an hour.

Mit hjerte banker bare mega hurtigt. "Ringer til Kim"

Hyshler: Heeeey!

- Hey! - Heeeey!

Kim: It's been a while! Hyshler: It's been a while, it's so good to see you.

- Det er lang tid siden, og det er så godt at se dig igen.

Kim: It's good to see you too. You look good!

- Samme med dig.

Hyshler: Thank you, you know working out little bit, just a little bit, not a lot.

Du ser godt ud! - Tak, jeg træner også, men bare en smule. Bar en smule

I'm just very shaky, I'm very scared.

Jeg er meget nervøs.

I just expect that he's going to give me an apology.

Jeg håber bare på en undskyldning

Papa: Yes? Kathylynn: Hi, Papa!

Kathylynn: What happened?

Hvad er der sket?

Papa: What do you mean "What happened"?

Kathylynn: What happened to your hair?

Hvad er der sket med dit hår?

Papa: Oh, I just woke up. I'm not ready.

Jeg er lige vågnet.

Gil: Hey, what's up? Julia: Okay, so are you ready for this?

Hej, hvad sker der? Okay, er du klar på det her?

Gil: Uhh... yeah, why not

Uhm, ja hvorfor ikke.

Julia: I'm gonna be asking you some questions,

Jeg kommer til at spørge dig nogle spørgsmål.

because I want to like, it's like a whole thing where you can like reconnect with people.

Fordi jeg gerne vil have lidt kontakt med dig

And like, you were the person I wanted to reconnect with.

og du er personen, som jeg gerne vil have kontakt til igen.

A lot of these questions are gonna be like about our relationship.

Mange af de her spørgsmål kommer til at handle om vores forhold.

So yes, get ready.

Gil: I was born ready.

Julia: Yes, okay.

Jeg var født klar.

I'm about to take the leap.

Jeg er igang med at ringe nu.

Ønsk mig held.

Daja: Okay, again, thank you for being here.

Tak for at være her idag.

Do I have permission to record.. to record this?

Må jeg gerne optage det her?

Dad: Yes, you sure do.

Hyshler: When I first moved to Alaska, you were one of my first friends, and you made me feel

Da jeg først flyttede til Alaska, var du en af mine første venner. Du fik mig til at føle vigtig

important, you made me feel loved, you made me feel welcomed and then there was this period of time.

og du fik mig til at føle elsket, og så var der denne her periode,

Um... and still kind of current where we just don't talk

som stadig er her til den dag idag, hvor vi bare ikke snakker.

Kim: Yeah, there was a-

a sudden drop in communication from both of us.

vi mistede lidt kontakten. Vi mistede begge to kommunikation.

Right around when I started... dating

Omkring tidspunktet, hvor jeg startede med at date.

Hyshler: That's actually, that's funny that you say that 'cause...

Det sjovt du siger det, fordi

That's what I was gonna ask you.

de var det jeg ville spørge dig om.

like why did that happen? Like, why did you...

Hvorfor skete det?

I guess cut off.. or not cut off our friendship, but,

Ikke stoppe vores venskab, men...

why... yeah, I guess why did you cut it off, yeah?

Hvorfor... Ja, hvorfor stoppede du vores venskab.

Kim: Well It wasn't intentional.

Det var ikke meningen.

That relationship was not healthy.

Det venskab var ikke fornuftigt.

Hyshler: I felt like... Maybe it was me.

Jeg følte at det måske var mig.

You know you got like the new shiny toy so you just like 'discard me.'

Det var som om du bare droppede mig

You know, like that's how I felt and you know, I- I just for a long time

Det var sådan jeg følte,

I was really bitter.

og i lang tid var jeg lidt bitter.

Kim: You know that relationship- because that relationship is done.

Det venskab var færdigt.

Hyshler: Is done?

Kim: That's over. Yeah I got out of that Hyshler: Oh my God.

Færdigt. Ja, jeg kom ud af det.

Kim: Maybe we can text, y'know, and it can be like old times

Måske kan vi bare skrive sammen?

Hyshler: Yes! Kim: Which would be awesome,

Det ville være fedt.

Because, you know, non-stop laughter! Hyshler: Yeah.

Kim: You know, I miss that. I do.

Jeg savner det, det gør jeg virkeligt.

I know that I was a healthier person when I had that in my life.

Jeg var en bedre person da jeg havde det i mit liv.

Hyshler: Same, same.

Kim: So, I'm very happy that you reached out to me.

Jeg er meget glad, at du nåede ud til mig.

Hyshler: I hope that, you know, this is like the start of something new um...

Jeg håber det her er en start af noget nyt.

Shout out to High School Musical.

Shout out til High School Musical. haha haha

And I will talk to you later.

og jeg vil.. snakke med dig senere.

Kim: Alright, you better!

Hyshler: Yes, I will.

Kathylynn: Like I know we haven't been talking for a while.

Jeg ved godt, at vi ikke har snakket særlig meget.

I just wanted to know if you like still like...

Jeg vil bare vide om du

Like want to see me again?

stadig vil se mig igen.

Like in person.

I virkeligheden.

Like you haven't seen us since- Papa: You said ' I want to see you' right?

Du sagde jo "Jeg vil gerne se dig" ikke?

Yeah, you haven't seen us in a while. Like you haven't seen me since I was in middle school.

Ja du har ikke set os i lang tid.

Papa: Okay, so do you want me to visit you or you want to visit me?

Vil du have jeg skal besøge dig?

Kathylynn: I-I mean, how come you haven't visited us?

Hvordan kan det være at du ikke har besøgt os?

Papa: I can't, Kathylynn: Why? Papa: I don't know where you live.

Det kan jeg ikke, jeg ved ikke hvor du bor.

Kathylynn: You never asked!

Du har aldrig spurgt!

Papa: No, [I've] always asked your mom.

Nej, jeg har altid spurgt din mor.

Kathylynn: You're the one who told me face to face that I am no longer your daughter.

Du var den der sagde at jeg ikke var din datter mere.

And you tell that to Caitlyn too and I don't

Og du sagde det til hende også

understand why you would say that, and at the same time tell me that you still love me.

Jeg forstår ikke hvorfor du ville sådan noget.

Like why would you say that you love me?

Hvorfor ville du sige at du elsker mig, hvis du ikke kommer

If you don't try to come see us and deny it right in front of the court.

Papa: Okay, what I did-

og benægte det foran dommeren.

What I said to you before, 'I don't like you guys anymore'

Det jeg sagde var "Jeg kan ikke lide jer mere"

But what you did to me.

Og hvad du gjorde mod mig.

You know, first I have a big problem [with] you, what you did to me.

Jeg har et stort problem med hvad du gjorde mod mig.

Kathylynn: What did I do? What did I do to you?

Hvad gjorde jeg?

Papa: Okay, you did not respect me

Hvad gjorde jeg mod dig?

Kathylynn: Have you thought about how you respected us?

Du respekterede mig ikke. Har du tænkt på, hvordan du respekterede os?

Have you thought about how many lies you said about my mom?

Har du tænkt på hvor mange løgne du sagde omkring min mor?

Have you thought of that? Where's the respect in that?

Har du tænkt på det?

How come you can't respect your own daughters?

Hvor er respekten i det?

Papa: Okay just- just stop this conversation, okay?

Hvordan kan du ikke respektere din engen døtre? Okay, bare stop den her samtale, okay?

It's not gonna happen for that thing, okay?

Det kommer ikke til at ske.

We're not going to solve this problem, okay?

Vi kommer ikke til at løse det her problem.

You're getting old soon, okay?

Du bliver gammel snart.

Just realize what your mom did to me.

Bare tænk på havd din mor gjorde ved mig.

Kathylynn: Okay, alright.

Okay, Papa, I'll catch you later.

Okay far, vi ses.

Papa: Okay. Kathylynn: Okay, bye.

Julia: Okay. Umm...

Do you believe like the question "right person - wrong time"?

Tror du på at jeg var den rigtige person, men det var tidspunktet ikke?

Definitely in a heartbeat, I would go back to it if I could,

But it wouldn't be the best decision

Hvis jeg kunne, ville jeg gå tilbage til det. Men det ville ikke være det bedste valg.

Or the healthiest decision, for either of us.

Eller det sundeste valg for os begge.

Gil: You want to up to school in New York and

Du ville gå i skole i New York

I'm going to a different country.

og jeg skulle til et helt andet land

Julia: This one's a big one, okay?

Den her er svær, okay?

Did you love me?

Elskede du mig?

Det gjorde jeg.

Julia: I was thinking- like I was thinking about it and I remember it like.. the first time you said it your way. And um... you called me,

Jeg tænkte på det, og så huskede den første gang du sagde det Ringede du til mig

and you were like...

Ooh, gosh, you were like, "I have something to tell you."

Åh gud, du sagde "Jeg har noget at fortælle dig."

He was like "I hope you're sitting down right now."

"Jeg håber du sidder ned lige nu."

Do you remember?

Julia: And you were like, "I'm about to knock your socks off," and I was like,

Og du sagde "Jeg er ved at slå dine sokker af."

"Why? Like what are you gonna say to me right now?"

Og jeg var bare "Hvorfor? Hvad skal du sige til mig"

And you were like,

og du sagde bare

"I love you." And I was like "What?!"

"Jeg elsker dig." og jeg tænkte bare what.

Julia: Was it hard to end the relationship?

Var det svært at slutte et forhold?

Gil: Was it hard to end it?

Var det svært at slutte det?

I still think about it a lot.

Jeg tænker stadig på det meget.

Gill: Alright. Julia: Thank you.

Gil: You're very welcome, I'll be around tonight if you need me.

Julia: Okay, bye. Oh my God...

Jeg er her i aften, hvis du har brug for mig.

Daja: Okay. Again, thank you for being here.

Okay... igen, tak

The last time we met there were like 11-12 years of resentment and..

for at være her. Den sidste gang vi mødtes var der 11-12 år af tilpasning

you know things that were unsaid?

og... ting som ikke var blevet sagt.

Well, I was brutally honest and at the same time, I wasn't truthful...

Jeg var mega ærlig, men på samme tid ´talte jeg ikke sandt.

and I was having trouble, you know,

Og jeg havde problemer med ting

facing the things that I can and can't change and one of those things is that... you are my dad.

som jeg kunne og ikke kunne ændre og en af de ting var at du er min far.

Dad: You know, I had the same problems, like with my dad as well

Jeg havde de samme problemer med min far.

And trying to learn how to love him and forgive him for not being a part of my life.

Jeg prøvede at lære hvordan jeg kunne tilgive ham

So I get it, and you're a lot like me.

for ikke at være en del af mit liv. Du er meget som mig, jeg har det

I have a hard time verbalizing and saying how I honestly feel.

svært ved at beskrive og sige hvordan jeg føler mig.

So, yeah, I get it.

Jeg forstår dig.

Daja: I did this, came on here just to tell you that... That I...

Jeg gjorde det her, fordi

That I forgive you,

At jeg tilgiver dig.

that I chose- and I choose you. And if you ever wondered...

Og at jeg valgte dig, og hvis du nogensinde havde undrede om

that if I ever loved you... that-

jeg nogensinde har elsket dig,

that I forgive you... so..-

eller om jeg tilgivet dig, det har jeg altså.

Dad: I appreciate you forgiving me, that means the world to me, to hear you say that.

Jeg er glad for at du tilgiver mig. Det betyder alt for mig at du siger det.

Wow... That was huge for you, huh?

Wow. Det var stort sagt, hva?

Daja: Yeah. Yeah.

Dad: Are we going to meet once a month?

Skal vi mødes 1 gang om måneden.

You know, you come here or I come there or

Du kommer herhen, eller jeg kommer der.

Are we going to talk or text frequently? like, I don't know

Eller skal vi bare snakke og skrive sammen?

I kind of need an after action plan.

Jeg har brug for en plan.

Daja: Seeing each other once a month sounds...

1 gang om måneden passer mig.

Again, thank you, thank you, thank you.

Igen, jeg takker mange gange.

Dad: You're welcome, love you

Du er velkommen. Elsker dig.

Daja: I'm gonna end it now.

Jeg slutter den nu.

This... this was a lot for me in that moment. In that moment, it was, you know, just a lot.

Det her betød meget for mig.

And now I'm just, you know, just letting- just letting it go and...

Og nu lader jeg det gå.

I feel... lighter.

Jeg føler mig mere fri.

Which you know, I'm a heavy individual,

Som du ved, jeg er en glad person.

but I feel lighter.

Men jeg føler mig fri nu.

He didn't answer my questions at all.

Han svarede ikke på mine spørgsmål.

I'm just going to be happy for him.

Jeg er bare glad på hans vegne.

That's... that's just it. I'm happy for him...

Det er bare det.

after everything.

Efter alt der er sket.

I look like a mess.

Jeg ser ud som et rod.

There is so much closure... and I honestly...

Der er sket så meget.

you need to call someone right now and tell them, "Hey, I love you. Hey, I miss you.",

har brug for at tale med nogen. Gør det nu og sig "Hej, jeg elsker dig, og jeg savner dig"

take this as an opportunity.

Tag din chance.

You never know unless you try.

Du vil aldrig vide, hvis du aldrig prøver.

I hope you enjoyed that episode.

Jeg håber du nød denne episode.

I just want to say thank you to all the people who submitted videos, were brave and

Jeg vil bare gerne sige tak til

willing to be vulnerable on camera.

alle personerne, som indsendte videoer, og var modige og villige at være lidt svage på video.

Thank you so much.

Jeg takker meget.

And... if you're interested in maybe reaching out or reconnecting with

Og hvis du er interesseret

someone and taking the leap,

i at måske få kontakt med nogen og tage springet.

then click on the link in the description below

Så tryk på linket i beskrivelsen dernede.

and maybe you can be featured in a future episode.

Og så kan du måske være med i en fremtidig video.

Thanks for watching and until next time.

Tak for at se med, og vi ses.

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