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Fake Smiles - Nouman Ali Khan
Senyuman Palsu - Nouman Ali Khan
Allah says, "(أَمْ حَسِبَ ٱلَّذِينَ فِى قُلُوبِهِم مَّرَضٌ)
Firman Allah, "(أَمْ حَسِبَ ٱلَّذِينَ فِى قُلُوبِهِم مَّرَضٌ)
(أَن لَّن يُخْرِجَ ٱللَّهُ أَضْغَـٰنَهُمْ)." (QS. Muhammad: 29)
(أَن لَّن يُخْرِجَ ٱللَّهُ أَضْغَـٰنَهُمْ)." (QS. Muhammad: 29)
"Or is it the case that the people who have
"Patutkah orang-orang (munafik) yang ada
some disease in their heart,
penyakit (syak, ragu-ragu) dalam hatinya:
have they assumed that Allah will not
menyangka bahawa Allah tidak sekali-kali
bring out their hatred,
akan mendedahkan perasaan dendam
and their spite, and their resentment."
dan hasad dengki mereka (terhadap Nabi Muhammad S.A.W dan umatnya)?"
The word (أضغن) comes from
Perkataan (أضغن) berasal daripada
(ضَغَن) or (ضِغَن) in Arabic
(ضَغَن) atau (ضِغَن) dalam bahasa Arab.
which linguists would argue means
Menurut pakar bahasa, perkataan ini membawa makna
(الحقد والبغضاء والأدواء)
(الحقد والبغضاء والأدواء)
which: resentment, ill-feeling,
iaitu: dendam, sakit hati,
spite towards somebody.
dan kegeraman kepada seseorang.
And Allah is saying in this ayah
Allah menyatakan dalam ayat ini bahawa
that people that have these kind of sentiments
apabila seseorang mempunyai sentimen ini
they tend to hide them.
mereka cenderung untuk menyembunyikannya.
Like somebody meets you with a smile,
Mereka senyum ketika berjumpa anda,
and they say salam to you, and they give you a hug,
memberi salam kepada anda, memeluk anda,
and they ask how are you're doing,
dan bertanya khabar anda,
but yet they're harboring inside them
tetapi mereka menyimpan perasaan
these ill-feeling towards you.
dendam terhadap anda.
They have this grudge against you,
Mereka berdendam dengan anda,
they're holding something you said
dan mereka masih ingat sesuatu yang pernah anda katakan,
for a long time and they don't tell you that.
buat masa yang lama tanpa memberitahu anda dan
And you'll never get an idea,
anda tak akan tahu,
you won't have a clue
anda tak akan sangka
that they're holding this against you.
bahawa mereka mempunyai perasaan sebegini terhadap anda.
And as a matter of fact it comes out
Malah, perkara ini akan diketahui
in other people's gathering,
dalam perjumpaan orang lain,
and when they're among
apabila mereka bersama
their other friends or whatever,
rakan lain,
where they'll talk about you,
mereka bercakap tentang anda,
and they'll say things about you,
dan mereka mengutuk anda,
but when they meet you, it's all good.
tetapi apabila mereka berjumpa anda, semuanya baik.
They're just gonna pretend everything is just fine.
Mereka akan berpura-pura bahawa semuanya baik.
And Allah calls them out in this.
Dan Allah menegur kelakuan mereka di sini.
And first of all He describes this
Pertama sekali, Allah menerangkan ini
as a disease of their hearts.
sebagai penyakit dalam hati mereka.
It's a spiritual disease.
Ini ialah penyakit spiritual.
It's not just...
Bukan sahaja...
You would think that disease of the heart is
Mungkin anda sangka bahawa penyakit hati bermakna
when somebody doesn't remember Allah.
apabila seseorang tidak mengingati Allah.
Or when someone is heedless,
Atau apabila seseorang lalai,
or they become greedy,
atau menjadi tamak,
or they become materialistic
atau menjadi materialistik,
and they're not spiritual enough.
dan tidak begitu beragama.
And yet in this ayah actually part of the meaning
Tetapi dalam ayat ini, sebahagian daripada makna
of people who have a disease in their heart,
orang yang mempunyai penyakit hati,
is actually people who has resentment
ialah seorang yang menyimpan dendam
towards others in their heart.
terhadap orang lain dalam hati mereka,
People who are harboring ill-feeling
Orang yang menyimpan perasaan benci
towards others in their hearts, subhanallah.
terhadap orang lain dalam hati mereka, subhanAllah.
That a spiritual disease.
Itu ialah penyakit spiritual.
And then, not only just that a disease...
Dan itu bukan sahaja penyakit...
Do they're really think
Adakah mereka menyangka
they're gonna be able to hide it?
bahawa mereka mampu menyembunyikannya?
(أَن لَّن يُخْرِجَ ٱللَّهُ أَضْغَـٰنَهُمْ)
(أَن لَّن يُخْرِجَ ٱللَّهُ أَضْغَـٰنَهُمْ)
Allah will bring out
Allah akan mendedahkan
all forms of their resentments
semua perasaan kebencian mereka
in one way or the other.
dengan satu cara atau yang lain.
Doesn't matter how much they try to hide it,
Tak kira betapa banyak mereka cuba sembunyikan,
and how much they try to conceal it,
betapa banyak mereka cuba sorokkan,
because of some agenda,
kerana suatu agenda,
or some advantage they wanna take,
atau kelebihan yang mereka inginkan,
or they don't think it's gonna be best for them
atau mereka berasa tidak baik
to let people know how they truly feel,
untuk orang tahu perasaan sebenar mereka,
and yet Allah will actually bring it out.
Allah tetap akan menzahirkan perasaan mereka.
You don't have to bring it out,
Mereka tidak perlu menzahirkan perasaan mereka,
and somebody else doesn't have to expose it,
orang lain juga tidak perlu mendedahkan kelakuan mereka,
it will be Allah himself
Allah sendiri
who will present the opportunity,
akan memberi peluang,
He'll create the circumstance
Allah akan menghasilkan situasi
where their grudge and their resentment
yang menyebabkan perasaan dendam, benci
and their spite
dan dengki mereka
is gonna make it's way to the surface.
tededah kepada semua orang.
You're gonna see it for what it is, subhanallah.
Anda akan melihat perasaan sebenar mereka, subhanAllah.
Allah will create those situations.
Allah akan mewujudkan situasi berikut.
This is not just about some people like
Ini bukan sahaja tentang beberapa orang yang
as you're watching this you're like
apabila anda menonton ini, anda berasa,
I can think of someone
"Saya tahu seseorang,
who's holding these grudges
yang menyimpan perasaan dendam ini,
Allah will bring it up one day.
Allah akan dedahkan mereka suatu hari."
Well, Allah hasn't brought it up,
Allah belum dedahkan mereka,
which means you shouldn't be making assumption.
jadi anda tak sepatutnya membuat sebarang tanggapan.
But this is about you and me ourselves.
Ini ialah tentang anda, saya dan kita semua.
Something I learn in life,
Suatu perkara yang saya pelajari daripada kehidupan,
that actually was inspired by this ayah,
yang diinspirasikan ayat ini,
a policy.
ialah polisi.
Sometimes you have friends
Kadang-kadang anda mempunyai kawan
and they say things and it hurts your feeling.
dan percakapan mereka mengguris hati anda.
And you don't say anything back,
Anda tak membalas apa-apa,
you just kind of hold it in,
anda pendam perasaan tersebut,
and it doesn't let you go.
tapi anda tak boleh lupakannya.
A long time goes by and you still hold on to
Masa berlalu dan anda masih ingat
what they said.
perkara yang mereka katakan.
And it does put a crack in your relationship
Ini meretakkan hubungan anda
with that friend
dengan kawan tersebut
or with that, whoever, that relative,
atau mungkin dengan ahli keluarga,
but you don't bring it up to them.
dan anda tidak menegur mereka.
I have policy that I even like
Saya ada polisi yang saya suka
to recommend when it comes to this stuff.
syorkan kepada orang tentang perkara ini.
You should not hold back,
Jangan pendam perasaan,
you should actually be loving, and transparent
anda sepatutnya menjadi penyayang, telus
and honest in the relationships
dan jujur dalam hubungan,
you have in life.
dalam kehidupan anda.
If somebody did say something
Jika seseorang berkata sesuatu
that hurt your feelings,
yang mengguris perasaan anda,
and you've been harboring it for a long time,
dan anda pendam perasaan buat masa yang lama,
don't let it turn into a disease inside your heart.
jangan biarkan perasaan itu menjadi penyakit hati,
Just let them know,
Beritahu mereka,
"Look, you said this, it really hurt my feelings."
"Awak cakap perkara ini, dan mengguris perasaan saya."
"I've been holding it,
"Saya pendam selama ini,
but I don't know if I should hold it anymore."
tapi tak tahu jika saya patut pendam lagi."
"I really wanted to let you know."
"Saya nak awak tahu."
And I actually did that.
Dan saya buat begitu.
More recently I did that with some friends
Baru-baru ini dengan beberapa kawan
and some associate,
dan kenalan.
that they did say something or do something
Mereka mengatakan atau melakukan sesuatu
that hurt my feelings personally.
yang mengguris perasaan saya,
And I held it for years.
dan saya pendam selama bertahun,
And then they eventually came back and said,
dan kawan-kawan saya akan berkata,
"You know, you don't call me as often as you used to."
"Awak dah tak telefon saya seperti dahulu."
And before I would have said something like
Sebelum ini saya akan kata,
"Ah, you know busy this time..."
"Oh ya, saya sibuk..."
But actually I decided, "You know what?
Tapi kali ini, saya kata, "Awak tahu,
Yea you're right. I don't call because this one thing
Betul kata awak. Saya tak telefon kerana suatu perkara
that really hurt me.
yang mengguris perasaan saya,
And I just felt that I shouldn't call you as much."
dan saya rasa saya tak patut telefon awak seperti dahulu."
"You want to talk about it?"
"Awak nak bincang tentangnya?"
"Yea let's talk about it."
"Ya, jom bincang."
And we'd have a 30-40 minute chat,
Kami bersembang selama 30~40 minit,
and things would get resolved.
dan selesaikan sebarang isu.
And actually our relationship would become
Malah, hubungan kami akan
better than it had been before.
bertambah baik daripada dahulu.
Just because you came clean,
Hanya kerana anda menceritakan perasaan anda,
just because you didn't let it inside.
hanya kerana anda memilih untuk tak memendam.
That's not patience,
Memendam perasaan bukan kesabaran,
that's not you being righteous,
itu bukan kealiman,
it's just you allowing for some sickness
anda hanya membenarkan penyakit
in your heart to get bigger and bigger and bigger.
dalam hati anda untuk merebak.
We're not angels.
Kita bukan malaikat.
We don't forget this stuffs.
Kita tak boleh lupakan perkara ini.
We have to resolve it. It's okay.
Kita perlu selesaikannya. Tak apa.
It's okay when people
Kita dibenarkan untuk selesaikan
resolve thing with each other.
isu dengan orang lain.
And we have to find healthy ways of doing that.
Kita perlu cari jalan yang baik untuk melakukannya.
May Allah make us courageous enough
Semoga Allah memberikan kita keberanian
to have openness in our relationships,
untuk mempunyai keterbukaan dalam hubungan kita,
in our communication,
dalam komunikasi kita,
without being offensive.
tanpa menyakitkan hati orang lain.
And may Allah (عز و جل) keep us
Semoga Allah (عز و جل) jauhkan kita
from those who harbored this kind of ill-feelings,
daripada mereka yang menyimpan perasaan sebegini,
until Allah Himself bring them out.
hingga Allah sendiri mendedahkan mereka.
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